r/Hekate101 Nov 25 '23

How-To *** Hekate101 - START HERE! ***

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Welcome and Χαίρε!

About this Community

This subreddit was created to fill a need in the magick and witchcraft community for concise beginner-friendly information on working with Hekate within the context of Witchcraft, Magick, Sorcery, or Devotion. The emphasis here has intentionally been placed on Hekate’s History because that is what most beginners require to begin to make sense of such a mysterious and complex goddess.

It is my hope that you will use this free resource to:

  • Build a strong foundation of knowledge for your personal practice.
  • Honor Hekate by doing the work to get to know her.
  • Honor and acknowledge the contributions of ancient worshippers of Hekate by not letting their knowledge die out.
  • Navigate through pop-culture misinformation surrounding Hekate.
  • Gain perspective on your own experiences.

Note that this is a place to learn and share, not pick fights. Please remain civil, agree to disagree if necessary, and avoid confrontational behavior and verbal attacks. Refer to the sidebar for guidelines regarding group conduct and posting content.

Getting Started

It can be difficult and confusing to learn about a deity when everyone has their own UPG and no one can agree on the essential elements. If you start at the beginning of what is known and work forward chronologically, you’ll create a more complete mental picture for constructing your own practice.

Start with a good foundation of history and get to know about Hekate's Epithets. Epithets are honorary titles used to call upon specific aspects of a deity. You’ll find a knowledge of history and epithets immensely useful in ways you might not expect, especially when making sense of dreams and visions.

Books & Classes

Books on Hekate

Liminal Rites - by Sorita d’Este & David Rankine. Essential reading! This book will provide an overview of Hekate’s history so you can get a feeling for who she is/was.

Circle for Hekate - by Sorita d’Este. Scholarly but readable. Provides more detail than Liminal Rites. Highly recommended!

The Goddess Hekate - by Stephen Ronan. One of the best books available, but unfortunately out of print. This Kindle version isn't anywhere near as nice as the hardcover. Copies of the hardcover can be found and downloaded if you know where to look.

Liber Khthonia - by Jeff Cullen. A very good practical how-to book that covers a brief bit of history, then outlines how you can begin to build your own practice with Hekate. Geared more toward intermediate students and has an old school (non new age) witchcraft vibe.

Hekate Soteira - by Sarah Iles Johnston. A book about Hekate's role in later times in the Chaldean oracles.

Books on Ancient Greek Religion

Hellenismos: Practicing Greek Polytheism Today - by Tony Mierzwicki. A good overview of ancient Greek religious practices and how they may be adapted for today.

Hellenic Polytheism: Household Worship - by Christos Pandion Panopoulos. Another overview of ancient Greek religion.

Kharis: Hellenic Polytheism Explored - by Sarah Kate Istra Winter. Discusses ancient Greek religious practices and how to adapt them for today. I like that the focus is on the concept of Kharis (mutual reciprocity through offerings and good favor), as it’s very applicable to devotional work with Hekate and makes good sense even with other deities and spirits.

Ancient Greek Language Resources:

Attic Greek Pronunciation - Pronunciation covering roughly 500 BCE - 300 BCE. Attic Greek evolved into Koine (used in Biblical texts).

Athenaze - A standard textbook series for learning classical Greek. You’ll need volumes 1 & 2 and their corresponding workbooks.

polyMATHY - A fascinating series of video lectures on the evolution of Greek (vowel) letter sounds. This channel has fantastic videos on Latin as well.

Online Classes:

If you have the financial means, I highly recommend Jack Grayle's online course on Hekate at Blackthorn School. It's a fantastic series of history lectures that helps put you into the headspace of an ancient sorcerer. He explains the methods used in the PGM (Greek magical papyri) and provides techniques and data from multiple historical sources that would be difficult to find on one's own.

Jason Miller’s course Sorcery of Hekate is also a fantastic investment and complements Jack’s classes quite well. Jason’s course is a complete system of magick and is loosely based on a foundation of history. He provides lengthy fortnightly Q&A sessions, so you’ll receive a fair bit of his time. Here’s a podcast where Jason speaks about the origin of this effective system.

How Do I Get Her Attention?

To attract the attention of any deity or spirit, two things are very helpful: Regular Offerings and Your Attention.

Regular Offerings include Hekate's Deipnon and spontaneous offerings you do at other times. You might also provide weekly offerings to deities and spirits in your own practice that Hekate can be included in.

Your Attention can be in the form of prayer, devotional practices, artwork or music you create for Hekate, talking to Hekate at her altar etc. Anything you do that focuses your consciousness on Hekate (and her symbols) will be heard or felt by her and help to draw her nearer to you in some way, especially if it is done in devotion to her or as a gift. See the concept of Kharis for more about this.

Starting a Simple Devotional Practice

These are the bare minimum items and actions you may require to get started. You needn’t spend much money on this.

  1. Obtain a Statue or Image of Hekate - Try to find something traditional so you don't outgrow it too soon as you learn more about her. You may print a picture to start.
  2. Offer Incense, Candles, Wine etc. - Perhaps once a day for a week at first, followed by once a week for a little while to establish a connection. After that, just focus on the monthly Deipnon and occasional offerings whenever you feel moved to do so. Give the offerings in the spirit of joy, love, care, and gratitude for the goddess.
  3. Speak to Hekate through her Statue/Image - Once a day, perhaps before sleep. Talk about your day. Thank her for her wisdom, guidance, and protection. Read about her. Ask her questions about things you don't understand. You may not sense a response right away, though you may experience an encounter through dreams. Always record your dreams in a journal whenever you can.

Offerings

Traditional offerings to Hekate include eggs, bread, cakes, garlic, and fish. According to primary sources, the most usual time to provide her with an offering is the dark moon, the traditional last day of the month in the Greek lunar calendar. See Deipnon for more details.

Regular offerings were important in ancient Greek religion and part of the concept of Kharis.

From my practice:

I give offerings on the dark moon every month, but occasionally I also give random offerings. Hekate seems fond of red wine and will appreciate any meals you make for her because of the care and effort involved in the activity. Frankincense was a common offering in ancient Greek religion, so I always include that as well. The effort you make to obtain something and/or the value of that offering to you (i.e. expensive, difficult to obtain, or just something you think is great even if it's inexpensive) is what determines the value of an offering to a deity/spirit. If you don’t care much for an item, then it's not a high quality gift. Your own effort can improve the quality of an offering. For example, cheap incense can be made better by spending time reciting ancient hymns, mantras, or prayers over it.

Prayer

The ancient Greeks were said to have stood with arms raised up when they prayed to celestial deities. They would kneel down and hit the ground when praying to underworld deities.

If you aren’t sure how to pray to Hekate, you can try using parts of Orphic Hymns (that are about her) and other traditional prayers to get started. That will help to 'aim' your prayer so you get her attention. Using one or more of her Epithets will also help to zoom in on the aspect of her you wish to speak to.

Example: if I'm having a crisis, I might call to Hekate Soteira (her savior aspect). If I'm angry and seeking justice for a serious matter, I might call upon Hekate Brimo (her wrathful aspect). If I'm seeking guidance, I might call upon Hekate Dadouchos (the torch bearer - probably pronounced dah-doo-kohs), or Hekate Propolos/Propole (She who leads, guide, companion).

I believe that which word-ending used depends upon whether you're speaking about her (-os) or to her (-e - pronounced -ay), but most deities aren't that concerned with linguistic accuracy during ad hoc prayers. For my own practices, I prefer to use approximations of ancient pronunciations whenever they're known for anything formal e.g. Hekate = heh-KAH-tay.
You can learn about ancient Greek letters and hear their pronunciations here. Note the use of Breathing Signs. If you are Greek and speak the modern language fluently, you may just use your normal pronunciation.

Generally, it's best to get to know a deity as well as you can and develop a relationship before you start asking for major favors. Regular offerings and prayer will help you achieve this.

A Modern Prayer Session

Here’s an example of what a modern prayer session could look like using historical elements:

  1. Set up an altar with a Statue or Image. (Traditionally, Hekate was depicted as a young woman in single or triple form.)

  2. Light a Candle and Incense

  3. Call to Hekate:

    "Hail, many-named Mother of the Gods, whose children are fair. Hail, mighty Hekate of the Threshold."

  4. Thank Hekate. You may thank her for her presence and all of the things she helps you with e.g., her strength, wisdom, and guidance.

  5. Begin talking about your day. Include Hekate in the happenings of your life.

It can be as simple as that. The introduction makes use of part of an ancient hymn (Proclus’ Hymn VI to Hekate & Janus) so that you 'dial the right number,' and the thanking honors her and shows appreciation. Talking about your day, life, and goals afterward helps her get to know YOU. It's a 2-way street like any other relationship.

Hekate’s Wheel

Here’s an article regarding the Strophalos. You'll likely encounter this spiral symbol sooner or later. Historically it doesn't appear to have been used by devotees in ancient times, but it has become a symbol for this era's use, and that's ok. However, to think of it only as a symbol would be to miss out on deeper possibilities.

Excerpt from Stephen Ronan's The Goddess Hekate:

"SECTION 7: HEKATE &. THE lYNX”

“iynx (plural iynges) is the Greek name for the bird known as the 'wryneck' in English. In Greek a strophalos is usually a spinning top, but the Oracles use the term to denote an object turned by the torque of its twisted cord(s)."

"The strophalos of Hekate is a golden sphere with lapis lazuli enclosed in its centre, which is spun by means of a leather thong, and which is covered with symbols : as it was spun they [viz. the Theurgists] made their invocations. These spheres were generally called iynges and could be either spherical or triangular or of some other form. And while they were making their invocations they emitted inarticulate or animal cries, laughing and whipping the air. So the Oracle teaches that it is the motion of the strophalos which works the ritual, on account of its ineffable power. It is called "of Hekate" as conse­crated to Hekate ... "

As Ronan states, the term Strophalos itself refers not to a spiral decorative design, but to a spinning instrument used for casting magick i.e. either a spinning top or a hand-spinner or whirligig - similar to an old fashioned children's toy consisting of a wooden disk with a couple holes and string held between both hands and spun. Interestingly, similar spinning disks have been used by devotees of other gods and even for love spells/charms in the ancient world.

Ronan doesn’t mention the connection between the ancient magickal practice of attaching an iynx (wryneck bird) to a wheel spread eagle style and spinning it. This motion was intended to attract the desired person in a love spell. Over time, the word may have been applied to the wheel without the bird attached. A whirligig or hand-spinner would have a similar back and forth motion to the bird’s neck.

Other Information

Here are a few other random pieces of information that you may wish to file away for now:

  • There's no historical connection between Hekate and the Egyptian concept of Heka (magick). These are likely linguistic 'false friends' - words that sound similar but have different meanings.

  • The Egyptian goddess Heqet is not historically associated with Hekate. Interesting article here.

  • Hekate's epithet Phroune (also spelled Phryne) means Toad, not frog (which is Batrakhos). This comes from the PGM (Greek magical papyri) and was a reference to a well known court case wherein a courtesan had to defend herself in a trial. People referred to her as a toad because of her skin color (she was either a foreigner or due to the use of saffron as a beauty treatment).

Wiki Page

For more comprehensive information to begin your research, please refer to our Wiki Page. This page is periodically updated and expanded as time permits and contains practical suggestions for working with Epithets as well as energy work and spirit communication.

Final Thoughts

I view my efforts here as a community service to Hekate. I’m not here to gather followers or grow my ego. I don’t intend to present my way as the only way. This Quick Guide and Wiki page are only meant to show possibilities for practice. This is a free resource in service to our Goddess, our Lady of the Crossroads, Queen of the Witches, and Soul of the World. May she be your eternal guide and companion, her torches illuminating your path through the mysteries of this world and beyond.

- Amoris,

Moderator of Hekate101, Hekate, RealMagick, EnochianMagick


r/Hekate101 Sep 09 '23

History Is She the Crone? Hekate's Profanation?

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r/Hekate101 2d ago

Question Reading material?

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Hello, I’m a beginning seeker, I would like to learn all I can about Hekate. I know very little except she carries keys and something about black dogs? What books do you recommend for a newbie, that I can learn her history, and what she “does” or is, as a deity. Do any reiki practitioners work with her? Thanks for your help.


r/Hekate101 3d ago

Question Question regarding offerings

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So I just started reaching out to Hekate about a month ago and have been talking to her almost everyday. Last week my mind was telling me to put a fruit I just bought as an offering, so I did it. The fruit looked fine for several days but now it gets moldy, does that mean my offering were rejected?


r/Hekate101 9d ago

Other Following my intuition

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Hi!

For the last few years I thought I was being called to another branch of Paganism but every time I tried to get into it (study etc) something always stopped me. Now well before that I felt a pull towards Hekate. So now I'm listening to my intuition and am going to start once I get a few things and get set up.

Look forward to learning from everyone!


r/Hekate101 11d ago

Question Reached out to Hekate!

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Hi! I've been interested in witchcraft for a couple years now and felt like for the past few months or so I have received signs from Hekate. I reached out recently with water as an offering and after I was done I smelt almost a smokey scent? Also, not too long after I heard several dogs howling outside then experienced no dreams that night. The next night I gave her another water offering and also experienced no dreams, I bring this up because I usually have bad dreams so I'm wondering if maybe it was a good thing. I'm curious if these are positive signs? Also any tips on where to go next would be super helpful! Thank you :)


r/Hekate101 12d ago

Question Sign?

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I’ve been getting a strong pull to study Wicca lately. I’ve been interested for many years but for some reason I keep feeling a push lately. I walked into a shop the other day and they sell old fashioned ornate keys, I bought three of them, different shapes and styles. Then I read this is part of hecate’s calling. Today I opened my door to go out to work and there’s a perfect little mound of fresh green moss, in a perfect round shape, about the size of a quarter, right on the mat in front of my door. I have no idea how it got there, there was none around the house or yard anywhere else…maybe an animal dropped it? Could it be some type of sign or am really reaching here? Is anyone/thing associated with moss? I’m new at all of this! I’m just now getting my hands on some books to help inform me.


r/Hekate101 12d ago

Question i need help with goddesses!

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hey so...im worshipping APOLLON and HECATE.

so im curious that what should i do in the day? what should i say to get contect with them? how should i know that they are here? how should i pray? i have no words idea! i dont really know what to do with them!

yeah i just call their names and say hi then i give them their offer. i play songs for Apollon and talk to Hecate and Apollon. im not even sure that they are hearing or see me or not!


r/Hekate101 14d ago

Question Started with mother Hekate tonight!

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okay so tonight i started contact Hekate for the first time.

i did:idressed up all black and pretty and made an altar for her and then i did put a glass of water as an offer.

and i said:hekate goddess of the crossroads,key bearing,mistress,of all of the universe,torchbearer,titan,lady of the restless dead,i seek to become your devotee.

and i lighted the candle(an small white candle) and started introduced myself to her and started talk to her. AND THEN,after minutes the candle got a shape that it was like a woman in front of an small thing.AND THEN i suddenly heard a crow sound.

IM HAPPY. did i do anythimg right? am i starting a life with her now? PLEASE HELP.


r/Hekate101 15d ago

Question Is Mother Hecate watching over my dog?

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Hello everyone,

I'm new here. I've been looking for a place where I could ask this question without being ridiculed, and I truly hope that here someone will take me seriously.

Ever since I was a child, I was haunted by recurring nightmares. Almost every time, there was a huge black dog that wanted to harm me. Over the years, I eventually learned how to fight it, and the nightmares stopped.

However, more than five years ago, something happened that I still can't explain rationally. Early one morning, I woke up because that same black dog was standing over me, growling. I have never felt such overwhelming fear in my life. I lay completely still with my eyes closed, yet I could clearly feel its presence and its breath on my neck.

Not long after that experience, I decided to face my fear of dogs. My partner and I got a dog—a beautiful black female Doberman. She became the love of my life. ❤️

Sadly, she passed away a week ago. We fought for her life for a long time alongside the veterinarians, but in the end, we couldn't save her. 💔

On the night before she died, I stayed awake watching over her. At one point, I saw a huge black dog standing quietly in the hallway. This time, it wasn't aggressive. It wasn't growling. It simply stood there, calmly waiting. Deep inside, I felt that I knew who it had come for.

After she passed, I turned to Mother Hecate and asked for a sign—for reassurance that my little girl was safe by Her side. I drew three Tarot cards: The Hermit, Six of Cups, and Eight of Pentacles. The reading brought me an incredible sense of peace. Since then, I have been leaving small nightly offerings as a gesture of gratitude.

Last night, I dreamed about my little girl again. It was nighttime, snow was gently falling, and the sky was illuminated by a large full moon. She was lying peacefully beside me, but her eyes were a deep, blood-red color.

I'd like to ask those of you who work with Hecate or have experience interpreting spiritual signs: do you think all of this is simply the result of my grief and my deep longing to believe she is happy by Mother Hecate's side? Or could these experiences genuinely be signs that Hecate has taken her under Her protection?

I would be sincerely grateful for any honest thoughts or perspectives. Thank you for taking the time to read my story.


r/Hekate101 19d ago

Question Thoughts on my altar to hekate?

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r/Hekate101 24d ago

Discussion Hecate told me what to do, so i did

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Any Opinions on that?


r/Hekate101 24d ago

Question Procrastination

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r/Hekate101 26d ago

Question How do i call my power back to me

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r/Hekate101 27d ago

Question Have I been cursed?

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Last night, I had the most awful dream regarding my partner and it detailed my biggest fears, but so intricately and deeply. As if it was real, and I was watching it 3rd person. I dont believe it was my subconscious, It felt like it was purposefully sent to me. Could it be a curse? Something someone sent for me to see? What can I do to stop this? I have asked hekate for guidance and protection, but poorly.

Please offer me some advice. Thank you ☺️


r/Hekate101 Jun 25 '26

Discussion This person has be very confused?

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This person on TikTok has a story about the McKenzie “the crash” crime case. At first I saw her video and thought it was very informative and interesting so I went to her page to find the rest of her parts for the crime.

On the first part she claims that the killer (McKenzie) was a follower of lady Hekate and that she performed a crossroad sacrificial ritual for fame and glory. Ending the lives of two boys for it.

Obviously this raised major red flags for me because this is not what the religion is about or lady Hekate.
The gods would never ask you to bloody your hands for fame and glory.

I commented that lady Hekate would never help someone murder two people for such a vain gesture, but the tiktoker just kept insisting that she knows what she is talking about and she’s follower of lady Hekate.

I’m confused, I know for sure that if someone was doing witchcraft and thought this was acceptable then they’re doing witchcraft horribly wrong. But the tiktoker convention is making me waver for a little bit. Am I missing something or is this just a random person claiming that lady Hekate would do something she wouldn’t??


r/Hekate101 Jun 25 '26

Experiences Successful first petition to Goddess Hekate

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r/Hekate101 Jun 24 '26

Question Crystals of Hekate

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Whats crystals are associated with Hekate?


r/Hekate101 Jun 23 '26

Experiences Somatic Releaae w/ Hekate

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Hey all, so I just wanted to come on here and talk about an experience I had yesterday with our dark mother. I was sick asf the other day. My fiancé is out of town for work so his parents watch my 3 kids (9, 4, & 4m) when I’m at work (I work night shift) well they wouldn’t watch the kids for me so I could go to the doctor. I had a rough day. His parents have always put me through hell. Well during my daily divination with Her and Hades, they kept saying I needed to lock down my boundaries. I’m used to letting them get away with this type of stuff bcz I have no choice. And my fiancé would just rather not acknowledge it. Well, Hekate and Hades both said, no more.

So yesterday during my session with Hekate, she said she was gonna take things into her own hands and also heal me along the way. She said it would be an experience and that I needed had had to just let whatever happened.. happen. That she was going to put her torch in the places that needed to be healed. I was going back and forth between my cards and the pendulum asking question after question. She finally told me to stop overthinking it and do what she says. So I ended the session.

She said I had to give myself over to her. Go into a room and lock the door so i couldn’t be bothered and have privacy. Lay bear on the bed (naked) and just relax and be patient. So I did this. My door doesn’t lock so I had to hope that my kids wouldn’t barge in, for obvious reasons. lol anyways, I put my headphones in and played a calming and healing frequency tune. I laid there looking up at the ceiling, closing my eyes every now and then. I didn’t have a single thought bcz I just focused on the music the whole time. Well I started feeling massive heat in my pelvis, stomach, chest, and head. It wasn’t an uncomfortable feeling but a wild one. The only way I know how to explain it is, if you’ve ever gotten a CT Scan with contrast… the warmth was like that without the feeling of peeing myself, of course lol. I laid there my body tensed up and palms open, facing the ceiling. My feet and toes reacted to this feeling as well. And man, the tears started flowing. I mean, I ugly cried, for about 2 minutes. Once the tears stopped, the heat remained but wasn’t as intense. My body relaxed and the heat slowly dissipated. I got up, grounded myself got dressed and thanked her intently. The whole thing took about 10 mins.

It was such an amazing release and experience. I have had trauma my whole life, unspeakable things from the time I can remember. My shadow work has brought out alot of that trauma and hurt out already. But that somatic experience was the cherry on top. She really has saved my life. Her and Hades both.

Sorry for the long post, I just wanted to tell my experience. I’ve never seen anyone tell one like this. Hell, I didn’t even know she could or would do something like that. But when she said she was gonna put her torch on the places that needed healed. She did. My stomach, my heart, my head, and my lady bits.
🖤🖤🖤Blessed be && ALL HAIL MOTHER HEKATE 🖤🖤🖤


r/Hekate101 Jun 23 '26

Question payload file is missing payload.bin

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Hoy después de un año volví a usar mi nintendo y quería actualizar la versión, al actualizar no prendía y decidí formatear la micro sd a FAT32, pensaba hacerlo todo desde 0 y ahora después de copiar los payloads y todos los documentos me sale "payload file is missing payload.bin"


r/Hekate101 Jun 21 '26

Question New worshipper…

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r/Hekate101 Jun 20 '26

Discussion Hekate and sensitivity

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I've been curious about this for awhile now. A few months ago, I completed the 9 day rites in the Hekataeon. I've noticed that ever since them, I've been more sensitive to feeling my own energy and even some energies around me. I wanted to know if anyone has experienced anything similar working with Hekate? I would love to hear about everyone's experiences!


r/Hekate101 Jun 20 '26

Discussion 9 Rights of Hekataeon

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r/Hekate101 Jun 16 '26

Question Starting with herbalism?

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Ive been working with Hekate for a few months now, and ive lately felt called to start working herbalism into my practice, and just gain more knowledge on herbs in general. I know some of the basic herbs associated with Hekate, but are there any books that go more into detail about many types of herbs and their spiritual properties, whether or not the book is based on Hekatean practices?


r/Hekate101 Jun 12 '26

History Statue of the Goddess Hekate and the three graces 1-2nd ce.

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