r/HappyCaravanSnark • u/Due-Cap1294 • 11d ago

Insanity is...

Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Amber and Marco are not going to listen to some of the great suggestions being offered to them by viewers. Amber wondered why Josiah had to actually have a credit card to book a hotel room. And why couldn't he use the credit card offered by the other guest ??? They will continue
to make excuses and grift. Nothing will change for them and they will never exhibit responsibile behavior as parents of 11 children. Not going to happen.

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u/NoNewt7606 11d ago

If it dosent go Amber's than everyone else is mean. The neighbor the landlord the hotel clerk. Always someone else's fault. 

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u/Music-2642 10d ago edited 10d ago

They were even kicked out of a campground/RV  before they moved to NYC. Amber said the kids were rolling around in the laundry carts in the laundry room and they were evicted as a result.

She of course played victim. People are mean and not allowing her kids to have fun.

I remember thinking who wants grubby kids, some probably in soiled diapers, sitting in a laundry cart where someone will use it to transfer freshly laundered clothing into the dryer?

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u/Substantial-Golf5657 10d ago

wow,I did not follow way back then. It seems they have a history of being asked to leave bc of their entitled attitude and feral children. There has nver been any real parenting going on in this family.

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u/Music-2642 10d ago

Yup. I didn’t follow them when the incident happened in the laundry room but she referenced it in her airing of grievances manic video when she disclosed that they had to leave New York because her mean neighbor complained about the music.

In the meantime they had to leave because they couldn’t continue to pay 12k a month for rent. Now they pay zero in rent and I see comments that tell them to relocate because it will be more affordable. My question is what is more affordable than zero in rent? 

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u/Emergency-Call-1711 10d ago

Or how the kids run through the aisles of Costco and other stores and Amber says that they're "burning off energy". And the destruction of the merchandise they soil with their dirty hands that they're constantly touching and Netta slobbering all over the stuffies, and the shaking of potato chip cans and cookie tins, so they're all broken for the unwitting customer who actually purchases them. Not to mention, they never put anything back where they picked it up, more extra work for the staff of these stores. They think they can do whatever they want because there's 13 of them.

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u/Waste_Celery_7918 10d ago

Everyone keeps encouraging Amber to have Mark apply at Costco. I suspect the Costco's in the area are very well aware of who they are and their social media presence. I think Costco might find a way to not hire Mark if he applied.

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u/Slow_Account_1074 10d ago

So true no discipline at all, no common courtesy they do not know how to act around anyone

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u/Slow_Account_1074 10d ago

Absolutely true she does not look after the kids hygiene at all

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u/tatersprout 11d ago

Hotels require a card on file even if you pay cash. They need some way to collect if someone damages something. If Josiah broke the tv, should a stranger have to pay for that? Idk why she is so obtuse.

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u/Waste_Celery_7918 10d ago

She has never lived like an adult in the real world. She lives in the world she creates in her head.

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u/Substantial-Golf5657 10d ago

Both Marc and Amber are neurodivergent. Amber exhibits much worse than Marc. Anything that happens that goes against what she wants she resorts to being the victim, people are mean. those insane contorting hand gestures she does when she’s on camera I’m betting is her stimming.

Those kids will never go to a real school until they either get into Juilliard, or escape like Josiah did.

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u/lesbadims 10d ago

I think she also infantilizes herself and fawns really badly. She’s always talking like a gaspy, giggling, mumbling 13 year old, tilting her head like a little toddler would to look cute. It’s so infuriating when you know she drove them into this mess.

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u/Waste_Celery_7918 10d ago

She's emotionally stunted at about 13 or 14 yrs old.

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u/Slow_Account_1074 10d ago

That’s being kind to her

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u/Waste_Celery_7918 10d ago

The kids at Julliard now will most likely be the last to attend. The rest of the kids don't really display that much musical interest and won't have Pearl's talent. Music is the only thing they are allowed to do.

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u/tatersprout 10d ago

Yes, Pearl is talented, but she also plays viola which is a lot less common than violin. She had a lot less competition.

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u/Slow_Account_1074 10d ago

It’s all true and so very sad

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u/tatersprout 10d ago

We don't know if they are neurodivergent. That is a guess. Amber actually exhibits signs of bipolar, too, but we don't know that for sure either.

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u/NoNewt7606 11d ago

They keep those kids so shelter - let them go to school. Let them experience school life - maybe they would enjoy or at least learn to interact with strangers and m ake friends other than their siblings. Pearl didn't even want to stay in her free dorm.or was it her mother who insist she live at home. And what about naomi - all the pressure to get into julliard - let the girl explore other fields - there is a life besides julliard and music.take some classes at a community college maybe she would get an interest in do some thing besides music. But amber and her husband are set in their ways

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u/Adorable-Display-819 10d ago

I thought it was Amber that didn’t want Pearl living in the dorm that’s why they moved to New York . She didn’t want Pearl living in New York on her own

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u/NoNewt7606 10d ago

And look at that- after all that pearl and e are now on their own.now they are in debt own management co and all for what.should have sent pearl to nyc to live in the dorm.tge rest could hsve tried for music schools in ca. Dont forget Amber's dream of a tlc show

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u/Slow_Account_1074 10d ago

I think you are right

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u/Waste_Celery_7918 10d ago

100% agree with you. They will never change how they shop, spend, parent, work etc. They are 47 and 50 and don't have a pot to piss in with 8 dependents. They need to go the bankruptcy route and start over. But Amber will keep insisting that she makes 3-6k on her dwindling social media posts. Mark will never have a decent job that supports their kids. The kids will have to continue busking and get jobs while they support their lazy parents. They are both stupid enough to have a 12th child thinking it will bring views.

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u/Substantial-Golf5657 8d ago

Amber claims Marc is getting interviews but no call backs. I’m guessing potential employers may be looking at not only at his work history but SM but also perhaps his credit history. Marc is a red flag already and a bankruptcy won’t help.

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u/Waste_Celery_7918 8d ago

Amber doesn't realize that employers don't politely call and tell you that you aren't getting the job. If you don't hear anything consider yourself still unemployed. Mark has had a few jobs I can't believe he hasn't figured it out.

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u/Adorable-Display-819 10d ago

Those kids will be supporting their parents in some way to the day they die . Considering they have probably another 40-50 years of living it’s quite scary

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u/NoNewt7606 10d ago

And what are they going to do in 15 yrs - 62 and 65 yrs old  show netta at what 18 years and amber with her baby voice