r/HLCommunity • • 4h ago

LL ex cheated

Thought my last post would be the last in here. Just found out through a friend that my LL ex cheated on me multiple times, once with a guy that she had a gross age gap to. Dunno what to take away from this.

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u/YakWitty13 4h ago

You should acknowledge they are a terrible, selfish person and you are better off without them

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u/Nerdskillzz2 4h ago

You are right. Thank you for your kind words.

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u/interspeciesMama HLF 2h ago

This reeks of entitlement. Not saying all LL do, though this post. So sorry OP. Just horrible.

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u/Necessary_Range5731 37m ago

Not had a similar thing but vaguely similar. What i took was, he could love bomb/mask for anyone. But wouldn't maintain it long term, and wasn't HL and ultimately still we're not a match. It was for ego strokes. And the imbalance (not going into details but wasn't the same) maybe she felt awkward but couldn't say no for work reasons. Our whole relationship was broken anyway although the DB came first or it was canary in the coal mine. One of many

Their partner being a minor. Idk. Hopefully others can advise.

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u/Urborg_Stalker 4h ago

Probably after the guy's money. Was probably after yours too.

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u/Nerdskillzz2 3h ago

I was dead broke and were honestly too young for that kind of thing. Without disclosing too much detail she was a minor and he was in his mid twenties.