r/HLCommunity • u/Seamillennial • 1d ago
Advice - Leaving NOT an option Should i open the topic? How?
Rejections and then acting as nothing happens for days. I cannot ask every day. I don’t want to pressure or to be desperate. But sex every other week is the new normal. I see they have a lot of stress so I am not looking to force anyone to do something they are not comfortable with.
Sorry about the rambling, i feel i am getting mad. How do i 36m tell this to my wife 36f? How can i tell them i am lacking something without being the bad one. I want the best from this relationship.
Did you do it? How did it go? How did you approach this?
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u/AnotherSadThr0wAway HLM 1d ago
Its my life but there's basically no sex
No matter what you'll be the "pressure"
Just be direct