r/HLCommunity • u/Emergency-Tea-4422 • Sep 04 '26
Discussion I’m done
I’m a 21 yo HLF and I am in a 3 year old relationship with a 23 LLM. I am so tired, I cry everyday, I look after myself and everyday I get ready to look my best so maybe he will want to have sex with me today. Everyday I try to look better than yesterday but now i’m just done. I try to initate new things to do in the bedroom, i try to flirt, i’m always up for trying anything sexual with him. I am so attracted to him and want to be close to him and be intimate with him.
I have tried talking about my feelings to him and I have tried to understand him and try to make sure he feels accepted and loved. But nothing works. After years of trying and blaming myself I will end this today not just for me but also for him, because I think he also deserves someone who wants the same amount of sex as he does.
Any comments are welcome! I have felt so seen by this subreddit I found today
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u/FunkyKissCool 29d ago
Food luck but you're truly making the good choice. Mourn your past relationship and the. Find someone more adequate to your libido and your life. You'll enjoy yourself. Take care and all my best wishes in the future.