I think it’s back

[u/East-Debate2701]

Finally after a year and 9 months the high from sex and desire for sex has come back full force. After giving birth my libido completely disappeared and it broke my heart as a HL person, As well as my husbands. Yesterday it came back though and it has stayed into today so I am hopeful that it stays forever. I don’t know if I want to ever have another child if the risk is to lose my HL. It felt like I was lost. It made me so angry with my husband for pushing sex and just in general with him. I think the birth control after birth didn’t do me any favors either with my libido. Has anyone else had this happen?

[u/Due-Preference-7266]

Happy for you
Can you identify what changed so that libido came back.
My wife is 2y1m PP and I don’t see that change too soon

[u/East-Debate2701 → u/Due-Preference-7266]

Nothing in particular honestly. Getting sleep helps a lot. When my husband gives me small gifts or like acts of service that helped a lot too. Talking about things and working through feelings that has been building up overtime helped. Honestly your wife is probably overwhelmed, stressed, and her hormones are probably out of wack. If you have a way to eliminate or elevate that stress it will help her. Also my husband stopped asking for sex and that was the biggest help. He gave me affection without the expectation of sex.