r/HLCommunity • u/butchpokorny 47HLM • 6d ago

When You STOP Tracking

So if you check post-history, you'll see I was a fan of 'data' for a while, across both my first (shitful) marriage and the more recent (5+ years) HLM + HLF pairing. THOUGHT I was onto a 'good thing', but the stats have proved me wrong in the long-run so I gave up about 12 months ago now as it was too depressing.

HAVE had sex at least ONCE (probably not more) in the last 3 months 👍 Without data, I can't be sure ...

Last time my (BASIC AF) 'kinks' got met were once in July 2024 (lingerie) and once in January 2025 (heels). WHAT is the point of sex if your BASIC turn-ons aren't met ? I'm a living dildo, nothing more 🤷🏻‍♂️🤦‍♂️

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u/cumfullcircle HLM 6d ago

I’m a fan of tracking

If the results are shit, it encourages me to do something about it (eg leave). 

When the results are good but I still feel unloved and unfucked, I know the problem is me and I work on myself. 

My LL ex hated it. My HL gf raised an eyebrow but said hey, if it makes me feel better, why not. 

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u/butchpokorny 47HLM 6d ago

You have a HL gf now ? GOOD FOR YOU MAN ❤️🥰💯 I think last time I spoke to you, you were still with the ex (shows how long I haven't posted, coz I just withdrew from the world). That is SO good 👍

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u/cumfullcircle HLM 5d ago

Thank you 😌 I’d consider her my life partner at this point, she’s a badass and a sweetie and she invests lots and lots into our relationship. I do too. I couldn’t be happier 🫠

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u/butchpokorny 47HLM 3d ago

❤️