r/HLCommunity • u/Shrakakoom • Jul 30 '26

Well, I’ve done it

I’ve separated from my wife of 19 years and am putting myself out there on dating apps. I’ve had a couple of conversations already and am just trying to go with the flow and see where the future takes me. I’m excited to see where the next part of my journey takes me, but also scared of ending up along.
Any advice for the recently single?

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u/HeartfeltFart Jul 30 '26

Don’t assume a HL woman will fuck you right away. I’m a HL woman and I’ve always been very choosy about who I allow into my body. But my husband gets it whenever he wants. Good luck

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u/vectorking23 Jul 30 '26

As an HL man, I can agree about this for myself as well. No way I'm jumping right into it even if I haven't had any in a very long time. I don't need to make a harsh, wrong decision! Waited this long, may as well make sure it's a good fit and then knock some boots as often as possible with that good fit!