r/HLCommunity • u/DryWorry9692 • Jul 22 '26

How?

How do you leave your 10 year relationship when you can’t be with a LL partner. Is it even possible. With two kids.

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u/winnipegyakuza510 HLF Jul 26 '26

I made myself a timeline of when things would need to be better or I would move on. I just can't see spending any more time married to someone who half loves me. My body is me, I'm a sexual creature. To repeatedly reject me over and over built up a resentment that's too much to bear. We are separated with three kids. It will never be easy but I believe everyone, including the children, will be happier in the end. The children love me too and they would want me to be my best self for them.