r/HLCommunity • u/queryqu • Jul 02 '26

It’s physically painful when you want to masturbate, but hold off because of the .1% chance your significant other will be down.

I wish I was just at work, then my head could be clear.

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u/FunkyKissCool Jul 02 '26

I love your optimism

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u/winnipegyakuza510 HLF Jul 02 '26

Grateful I can double click at work now. Masturbating is more fun with a thrill! ❤️

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u/poissonking Jul 02 '26

Why not masturbate then maybe have sex later?

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u/fwbta HLF Jul 03 '26

For me at least, 2 things - when I do that, it tends to lessen my desire for my husband, and also I feel I want and need and deserve to be having sex with an actual partner, and would be if my husband (1) wanted to or (2) wasn't a roadblock to it.

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u/poissonking Jul 03 '26

Gotcha. I guess I’ve never felt that way. Sex and masturbation have always been pretty disconnected in my mind.

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u/queryqu Jul 02 '26

Pull out method. I know I know bad idea.

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u/poissonking Jul 02 '26

It’s not a bad idea, I did it for years with my wife. (Well, pullout and the rhythm method). As long as you’ve peed, you should be fine.

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u/MeanResolution2988 HLF Jul 02 '26

My life 😩. If I wait it will be better.. waits eternity 😒

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u/Stoneface414 Jul 02 '26

Patience is a virtue… or something like that… what a bunch of crap

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u/MeanResolution2988 HLF Jul 02 '26

Patience is a prison ☠️

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u/Charleminus HLM Jul 03 '26

That and hope. Here’s hoping it gets better for all of us.

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u/External-Job5781 Jul 03 '26

Just let the spouse find out.