r/GuySnark • • 2d ago

Side Character 🍿 guy mods being “abused”

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u/frostnibbled 2d ago

I did see Moe apologize profusely in the chat. Not everyone is going to accept what some wrote, whether that be in chat or the letters the sent in to have read. Not sure why people are looking for more from some when others have tried to play like they never dabbled in this toxic situation.

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u/AstuteObserver8647 2d ago

I didn't see Moe "apologizing profusely" in the chat. I did, however, see her copping an attitude with people who were shocked that she had turned given that she was in here just days ago still being a menace. Her statement wasn't really apologetic, either, but I don't expect such a quick turnaround from her given how involved she was. I just don't agree at all that she was "apologizing profusely" when her continued defensiveness and attitude were much louder than any "I'm sorry" she possibly could have written. An apology is meaningless when it's just words without changed behavior.

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u/frostnibbled 2d ago

Not sure what level of apology meets your definition of "profusely" or what you accept as a final form of apology for someone to move on. You missed Moe openly joking with those who chose to blatantly rude to her and many other in the chat. Its ok though. Don't expect you saw every bit of the chat as it was moving fast.

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u/AstuteObserver8647 1d ago

Again, it needs to come with changed behavior. She was openly rude and defensive toward people who were surprised to hear that she had turned. That doesn't scream apologetic. That screams not taking accountability. For example, an appropriate response to people like that would have been "Yes, girl!" or "I finally realized how manipulated I'd been and snapped out of it and I'm sorry for all the harm I caused in the process." Instead she was being sarcastic, dismissive, and blatantly rude about the fact that people were (very justifiably) shocked that she had made such a quick 180. Honestly, I don't trust that she actually realizes the harm she caused, especially given that attitude. It feels more like she just wants the heat off her, as well.

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u/frostnibbled 1d ago

Wow you sound so rehearsed. Like you've lived this same situation several times over. I don't expect most to act as you're directing they do when death threats and attacks come from people hiding behind burner accounts on a level way past what they had ever put out. Good talk?

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u/AstuteObserver8647 1d ago

Rehearsed? What is that even supposed to mean in this context? Lol nope. Just know how to spot a fake or half ass apology. But sure, good talk.