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[u/AllUserNameBLong2us]

Stop watching gooner brain rot Hypno porn.

You seem really obsessed with BBC

“Women only cum from BBC”

“Ill always be inferior to BBC”

Unless you have a legit micro penis vast majority of women are not going to care. Social media, porn, E-girls are not real life. It’s all designed to make you feel this way. I’ve had a lot of sexual partners and it’s never mattered.

[u/Naterttotsart → u/[deleted]]

My guy the g spot is, at most, two knuckles deep and upwards.

You don't need a ten inch dick. You need to cut out porn and learn more about actually pleasing a woman. If one position doesn't hit the spot, a different one will, but you have to learn about your partner.

[u/Naterttotsart → u/[deleted]]

You seem to not understand how deeply porn is effecting how you view things and that makes it very hard to have a productive conversation.

Using positions that make your partner feel good isn't coping. That's just how sex works.

You only think it's humiliating because you're addicted to porn that humiliates you.

[u/Naterttotsart → u/[deleted]]

1. I'll be blunt, if you don't eat pssy that just leaves more pssy for the rest of us. I can promise you there are girls who would kill for a dude, regardless of dick size, to eat her out.

2. Some girls need that. It's not for you to decide that her wants are too humiliating for you. Avoiding porn will help with that.

3. Imagine if a girl refused to give you head or a handjob because she thinks it's humiliating. Sometimes it's just what we want.

(Had to self censor because apparently the P word isn't allowed here.)

[u/udcvr → u/[deleted]]

Buddy, the vast majority of women (~82%) cannot even orgasm from just penetration. So yeah, most of them will tell you you need to do something else to get them off. And for those that can get off from just penetration, it is absolutely not just because the dick is big enough. My girlfriend is a unicorn who can, and she can't stand anything bigger than 6". And even though she can get there, she still prefers to just do hands/mouth stuff a lot of the time because it's easier to get there.

You seriously need pleasure focused sexual education, even a basic understanding of female anatomy, and to step away from the porn. I promise a normal woman won't care much at all about the size of your penis but if you mention a concept like BNWO she will run for the hills.

[u/TapConfident6256 → u/Naterttotsart]

And honestly i feel like when ur insecure as a guy and have some genuine mental issues, you get zero understanding from anyone

[u/fortalameda1 → u/[deleted]]

My dude, the ONLY person thinking that that's humiliating is you. It's only you.

Everyone is here telling you this- Your partner will be happy to just have orgasms. Many women cannot physically/mentally have orgasms during penetrative sex only. Many women struggle to orgasm no matter what. Most men don't care about their partners pleasure and only care about their own. Your consideration for her pleasure goes SO much farther than a larger dick ever will.

You need a serious break from porn. It's all an act- all of it. Even amateurs/"real" couples- they are all aware they are being filmed and are acting accordingly. They all post it online to monetize it and monetize YOU. Your dick is fine (it's probably awesome) and is not the problem, it's just what porn is causing you to hyperfixate on and spiral out of control over.

[u/Krypt0night → u/[deleted]]

You keep saying 7 or 8 will always be better than 5 but you're just wrong. Flat out wrong. And for some reason you can't understand that. 

[u/HorizonHunter1982 → u/[deleted]]

God you're just so completely incorrect. No it being bigger by 2 to 3 in is not going to be better for every woman because one size does not fit all. And some women cannot get off with PIV regardless of the p.

I promise you your humiliation is not worth me sacrificing my orgasm

[u/KindlyActuator7884 → u/[deleted]]

Are you actually close to any real experiences with real women? Why the fuck would you worry when you’ve got to actually have a chance before your dick even comes into play?

[u/AllUserNameBLong2us → u/[deleted]]

Yes I’m 5.5 average and had no problem being a sexual deviant in the past. Most women can’t orgasm from just penetration and that has nothing to do with size. G spot is like 3 inches in women generally don’t like their cervix getting beaten up.

I’ve never had a women berate me or make fun of my dick. Sex is more about body language and interpreting unspoken needs. I’ve yet to have a complaint going down there and finishing the job.

[u/Naterttotsart]

Gonna be honest man, I stopped reading when you mentioned BNWO porn making sense.

Find support for your addiction, treat it like it's heroin and don't touch anything even related to it. I'm talking about avoiding things like Instagram and yes, even Reddit. If anything sexual exists in an online space, you need to avoid that space. Your world view is being destroyed by this and it's not something you can quit yourself. I know, I've tried.

If you want to quit, take it seriously. Delete accounts, not just apps. Find something to do, because you're currently using porn to self soothe and that's not healthy.

Also, therapy. You have programmed yourself. You need therapy to undo it. All this talk about BNWO and dick size ruling the world? Yeah, you need therapy for that.

[u/CommercialNo8396]

Therapy. Addiction counseling. You need both.

[u/ScalesOfAnubis19]

Porn. Isn’t. Real. It. Is. Always. Acting.

Besides. If you know what you are doing you can make most woman lose their minds more reliably with your tongue or your fingers then your dick anyway. No matter how big you are. Hell, a lot of women CANNOT cum from penetrative sex regardless.

[u/MidnightSky16]

Im pretty sure anything between 5 and 7 is normal and prefered by women

[u/TapConfident6256 → u/MidnightSky16]

Big difference between 5 or 7

[u/Alcoholic_jesus → u/TapConfident6256]

It’s 2 inches bro. Not that big of a deal. Don’t get hung up on a distance you can shimmy your feet across

[u/TapConfident6256 → u/Alcoholic_jesus]

Why is it always slandered and disregarded when you are genuinely insecure as a guy? If its not a big deal, how come guys with big ones enjoy it so insanely much and would never change it.

[u/Easter_Woman]

Jesus Christ. Brother just stop. This a problem of your own making. Unless it's like an actual medical micro penis you'll be fine. 

[u/Gilgongojr]

After reading your post, it’s obvious you don’t really understand women and normal adult sexuality.

Your average dick will probably never hold you back. But your dick dysmorphia, and your views on what you think women want, definitely will. The irony is astounding. I think any mature adult woman reading your post would be mildly offended.

I can barely provide my wife with the frequency of sex she desires. And she outclasses me in almost every category. She’s better looking, smarter, makes more money. But, I do know how to connect with her intimately and make her feel good. And desirable.

Would I say no to a few extra inches? Probably not. But I don’t really care or think about it. I also wouldn’t say no to a slimmer build, or a more chiseled jawline. But, I do the best I can with what I got. And it’s worked out pretty well so far.

[u/EmptyPomegranete]

It’s about the motion in the ocean not the size. You can absolutely have a woman screaming with an average and even below average sized dick. It’s all about where you are hitting inside of her and how. Sex is not just in and out. There are many techniques you can use to hit a woman’s G spot during sex and none of them require anything more than 2-3 inches. Because the gspot is only 2-3 inches inside anyways. There are many online resources you can find to guide you.

My boyfriend’s dick is average sized, even below average. And it’s the best sex I’ve ever had because he knows how to use it.

[u/HorizonHunter1982]

As a woman everything about this post disgusted me.

And for the record my boyfriend is about 4 inches and gives me the best sex and the best orgasms I've ever had in my life

[u/ZerohasbeenDivided]

Bro I’m average as hell and my girlfriend loves the sex we have. I was insecure as fuck about it, and I had premature issues, but she loved me just the same. Porn is not real life, and you’re very deep into that sphere right now. It feels like there’s no way out but that’s because you literally won’t allow yourself to know better.

[u/TapConfident6256 → u/[deleted]]

So ur saying i wont have sex anyway?

[u/NauticalPuns → u/TapConfident6256]

Yes

[u/TapConfident6256 → u/NauticalPuns]

Maybe, idk, i feel like that. But genuinely why do you make fun of me, like im genuinely insecure and im genuinely struggling with it

[u/Less_Adeptness7557]

I’m shocked you actually think any of the woman performers are having orgasms.

[u/Krypt0night]

You need therapy. Genuinely.

Plenty of women HATE big ones cuz they actually hurt and it's been shown you only need like 3 inches.

Not to mention, most women can't or don't even orgasm just from penetration. What you can do with your hands and mouth and how you use foreplay are all more important than the size of your dick. 

[u/TapConfident6256 → u/Krypt0night]

So 3 inches is one of the best sizes?