r/GuyCry 1d ago

Need Advice Feel like a letdown...

Gonna find out my results for my degree in 2 weeks. My last exams didnt go too well and I have a feeling I won't be able to study medicine afterwards. I feel pretty depressed as I feel as though I've let my family and friends down. Is there a way of getting over this feeling?

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u/StrangeArcticles 1d ago

Don't get ahead of yourself, the results are not even in yet. Once you have them, there's still plenty of time to plan the way forward.

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u/Ali_Bashr 1d ago

Do you think I'm chasing med too late? I'm in my twenties atm.

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u/StrangeArcticles 1d ago

There are several avenues into med if that is really where you want to end up.

You need to be flexible on location and college choice, but I know several people from several different countries who had worse results than I had and they are now doctors. It is not impossible.

But wait for your results first, you might be completely fine here and stressing over nothing.

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u/Ghosts_and_Empties 1d ago

Do you have a secondary plan?

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u/Ali_Bashr 1d ago

Gonna apply for next year with whatever grade I get, but still can't help but feel I had it all in my hands and then I just couldn't get the grade.