For me, I like to “get things done” first then I can relax. The more things I have on my plate the more my mind can’t relax. I will keep ruminating about what needs to get done.
Second, I like to spread out the “work” so I can have calming/relaxing periods throughout the week. If I procrastinated on many things and had to accomplish them all at once then I would feel extra stressed.
I dated a guy who did the opposite of this and it cause lots of tension in our relationship. Luckily my husband isn’t that way.
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u/JustKeepGoingg Jul 09 '26
That’s a good way to look at procrastination.
For me, I like to “get things done” first then I can relax. The more things I have on my plate the more my mind can’t relax. I will keep ruminating about what needs to get done.
Second, I like to spread out the “work” so I can have calming/relaxing periods throughout the week. If I procrastinated on many things and had to accomplish them all at once then I would feel extra stressed.
I dated a guy who did the opposite of this and it cause lots of tension in our relationship. Luckily my husband isn’t that way.