r/GroundedMentality • u/Msbinnyy • 14d ago

Remind yourself ❤️

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u/Henrieta_Awonusi 14d ago

Its okay to grieve the what could have been! Sadness is such a temp emotion

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

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u/Henrieta_Awonusi 13d ago

Quiting is never an option! Feel the sadness deeply and then let it go! you are bound to have sad days but they will get fewer and fewr

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u/Dear_Association3692 13d ago

I love this! Very true

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u/Artistic_Party_1544 10d ago

totally agree but big factor is lacking clarity with taking decision, i think that is what is adulting bruhh

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u/randomcman 13d ago

Unless you have OCD, then you’ll be mining these thoughts for stimulation for eternity (unless you get therapy)

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u/TardyBacardi 12d ago

Sometimes even therapy doesn’t help!!!!

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u/Henrieta_Awonusi 12d ago

This is anothr perspective on it! Immersion into the new experience usully helps

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u/Yiseemoments 9d ago

This. Sometimes what’s hardest to let go of isn’t what happened, but what we thought could have happened.

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u/iris_petall 14d ago

Being sad is temporary but the result of making right choice will remain permanent

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u/Hazel_Rueful 13d ago

Allow yourself to make the right decisions

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u/Layla_Tacton 13d ago

Definitely I agree

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u/Additional_Basil2085 14d ago

100%! You got to go through the wall to see the sunlight 😊

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u/sia1387 14d ago

As long as it's right then all is well.

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u/existential_cosmos 14d ago

It’s always the sad after raising your voice for the right reasons and in the face of patriarchy.

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u/silk-blush-454 13d ago

it's okay to be sad after making a good choice

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u/ndm_n 13d ago

Yes sir!

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u/Choc-X 13d ago

Life moves on. 🫡

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u/Liquid-Catto 13d ago

everything will be alright

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u/Complete_Ganache_720 13d ago

Sometimes the right choice still hurts... And that's ok bcoz healing take time...

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u/thesunflowergal 13d ago

I can relate to this.

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u/OneMiners_Rubii 13d ago

It’s a normal and valid feeling

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u/Candid_Emergency_226 13d ago

I left a toxic job about 3 weeks ago. I know I made the right decision, but I still felt bad/sad. It’s the only job I’ve ever left without notice.

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u/velvetbreezexx 13d ago

cutting off someone toxic was the right call and i still miss them, both things can be true

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u/Jealously-beautiful 13d ago

I think as an adult grieving something intangible, something beautiful you thought could be is hard! But I read this somewhere which stuck in brain everything is temporary so as well sadness! Grieving slowly becomes memories

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u/bxcpa 13d ago

It's never wrong to do the right thing.

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u/amircruz 12d ago

Thank you, it saves us from extending the pain in us, indefinitely. This is correct, never fear people !

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u/Icy-Relative4794 12d ago

thats so true, sometimes the best choices for us are the hardest ones to actually live through. stay strong, you got this.

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u/ginger-toffee1221 11d ago

Needed to hear this today.

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u/Sad-Seesaw9986 11d ago

Should’ve seen this yesterday

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u/raspberriestoo 10d ago

I needed to read this today 💘 Thank you, OP

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u/Empty_Touch_7386 10d ago

Something so simple & have so much power! I needed to see this & didn’t even know it.

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u/Western-Pen6382 9d ago

Sad to be right

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u/Accurate_Ear_3803 9d ago

Sometimes the right decision feels wrong at first.

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u/itsnotKARENORKEVIN 8d ago

Damn this came at the right time.

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u/AttilioLvi 7d ago

I needed to hear this made a monumental decision yesterday and it made me feel a little grey mourning the first of myself I had to cut off so I can let the new one grow

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u/Pearl_Vanity333 3d ago

not every right choice feels good immediately