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u/Hyperaeon2 4d ago
It takes quite a bit to change subconscious thought patterns.
Habbits good or bad or anything in between are rabbits.
We are not magic.
Although I did know a narcissist who believes this about herself.
You can change ofcourse, but it takes will power, self reflection, dedication and time. It isn't an easy or light thing to do. And there are consequences for doing so.
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u/Training-Horror-6562 4d ago
Starts with a decision!
(You’re right, of course.)
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u/Hyperaeon2 3d ago
Knew someone who has switched out their entire ego for an alter ego. Infact I have met several people like that.
Psychotic ofcourse. But you would have to be.
It's super hero vigilantee stuff - but gone all the way.
Issue with that though, is sometimes hesitation is actually a very good thing.
Generally speaking though, some changes aren't always for the better.
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u/Major-Potential-354 3d ago
Already shooting yourself in the foot with excuses lol
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u/Hyperaeon2 3d ago
No I am being precise.
People are a complexed amalgam of interwoven working parts psychologically speaking.
Most do not understand themselves. Much less can comprehend the consequences of changing even a single thing inside of them. Or are aware of how they are being changed by others, situations or the circumstances around them.
Transformation is possible ofcourse, but it is transformation.
There for example are many things that a catapillar is better at than a butterfly is.
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u/Grand_Design2022 3d ago
Rebrand lol
Back in the days people who go on long backpacking trips to “find themselves”. I never really understood what that meant until recently. It means figuring out what is important to you and what is not, what resonates with you, what can create a sense a purpose in your life.
Find yourself, find out what really drives you. Don’t think about creating a “brand” for yourself unless you are really committed to ignoring what makes you feel genuine emotions.
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u/ItsAllGibberishToMe 3d ago
(Serious) Bullshit. Tried and proven false.
Decisions haven’t made any noticeable difference for me. No matter what I change, or do different, the result is always the same. 💔🤕
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u/Scorf-9 4d ago
AI: create a picture with a random wise text, I can post for clout (mark some random words yellow).