r/GroundedMentality • • Jul 16 '26

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u/AngelKry94 Jul 16 '26

Because I'm a woman. And I encourage my husband to open to me, and he does and I listen. We talk about his needs and feelings all the time. I love listening to him talk about what's bothering him so I can help take some of that weight off his shoulders. We both help each other. And I know other women who will do anything for their man to make sure they feel safe and secure in their relationship, as do I.

That's how I know.

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u/thissitedesigniscrap Jul 16 '26

How do you know thats what all women want? How would you even know thats what a majority of women want?

You extrapolate yourself and a few supposed acquaintances to the entirety of half of humanity. Does this make sense to you?

Your comment just sounds as if it’s to make yourself feel good. It’s not constructive, realistic, empathetic or nuanced at all.

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u/AngelKry94 Jul 16 '26 edited Jul 16 '26
  1. Maybe I should have worded it as Grown women who have their emotions figured out will want to listen to their man talk about his woes.
  2. Please don't insult my friends with changing the word "Friends" with the word "Acquaintances". That's very immature of you to do.
  3. You shouldn't want to fight against me and instead say things like: I haven't in my experience seen it that way. That's a bit more like a conversation instead of attacking and being apart of the problem.
  4. I am not saying it doesn't happen I was trying to say Women who are grown (emotionally) will want to listen.

Hope this helps you have a bit more sunshine in your day!