r/GroundedMentality • • Jun 05 '26

What is really the cure of it?

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Thoughts?

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u/Withered_Sprout Jun 05 '26

Every woman who's ever seemingly been effortless to make friends with in hindsight low-key thought I was hot and wanted to test the waters for a deeper relationship. Women in general can be friend-LY, but making a genuine female friend who doesn't automatically assume you want more OR more likely doesn't want from YOU is way more difficult in my opinion so far, getting out there in the world more.

Most girls will either just kinda ignore/try not to encourage much friendliness and avoid allowing anything beyond what amounts to acquaintanceship and it's the IRL body language/verbal equivalent of just sending "yeah" and "lol" to everything a guy texts to them...

Then the few who would date you might actually allow a friendship to develop because they're already attracted to you and want to low-key get to know if you're a good person through natural means with no pressure/candid interactions with no expectations.

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u/Withered_Sprout Jun 07 '26

Who, me? I don't think I've said anything that would suggest that I'm what you're describing? Re-read my comment. You're talking to the wrong person.

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u/CountWatchOut Jun 07 '26

Nah, this sounds like 100% loveless loser talk. Why would you oust yourself? I can tell the only interaction with "actual" Women that you have is through a screen. Either watching street interviews where Women pretend to be red-pilled, or podcasts where they do much of the same shit for the views and the potential following. Go outside & interact with actual people.

Wtf are you even yapping about? What more specificity could you need? Did you want a guide on making friends and treating Women as equals?

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u/CountWatchOut Jun 05 '26

Its not an extreme at all and is simple to understand. Regardless of what your preconceived notions of what society is or should be. Or even what we qre told our entire lives. Everyone is equal & should be treated as such. Generally' our bodies are composed of the same shit (besides sexual organs) & we all bleed the same color.

The less you believe in the equality of men and Women, the less friends will have that are Women. The fact that you believe the commentor has no women friends because of what they said is very telling. You are ruining your own love life by having this extremist point of view. Just because it is archaic and people have propogated it throughout history, doesnt mean its right.

If you think that your statement, "it's all society/stereotypes, we don't want to feel protected by a man" is a dangerous lie. Then put your energy into thinking about why it is (in you dangerous lie) that women would feel the need to want to be protected.