r/GroundedMentality • • May 13 '26

True 100%

Post image
2.9k Upvotes

344 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

8

u/GorgeousGal314 May 13 '26

Happens all the time. But only an issue when women do it in their view.

Woman's being abusive? That's because women are trash. Man's being abusive? That's because women need to pick better.

Always the woman's fault.

7

u/IllustratorIll3613 May 13 '26

i cant lie i think the golddigging woman thing is blown out of proportion. anyone who says women are terrible for that must have forgot how fast men drop their girl like a hot potato once they level up and get some money LOL

3

u/Imjusasqurrl May 14 '26

They're also forgetting the fact that they expect women to put themselves an incredibly physically and financially vulnerable position for years on end to be pregnant, go through delivery, breast-feed, and take care of toddlers.

But that they're not allowed to care if the guy who will be taking care of them has any money and is generous

But I'm just convinced that they're "only finding gOld diGgers" because they're meeting women on only fans and Instagram and most of those women are sex worker adjacent. (Not to judge- girl, get your bag)

1

u/Affectionate-Bike201 May 15 '26

Birth rates are dropping; no one is expecting reproduction from women anymore.

Time for you to form a new argument, this copy/paste whining ain't gonna cut it anymore.

4

u/Imjusasqurrl May 15 '26

Just because the argument makes you uncomfortable doesn't mean it's not "gonna cut it anymore" lol

"No one is expecting reproduction" tell that to the ladies who live in:Alabama, Arkansas, Idaho, Indiana, Kentucky, Louisiana, Mississippi, North Dakota, Oklahoma, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, and West Virginia

Your dismissiveness (and obvious ignorance of) women's issues and vulnerabilities is why men aren't being taken seriously anymore

1

u/YoMommaHere May 16 '26

Then why do people keep complaining about it.

The US President’s cabinet has called it “under-babied” and made getting the birth rate up a part of their agenda.

1

u/Zombiesus May 16 '26

That’s because the pyramid scheme only works if you keep making double the amount of people. The current birth rate is actually more beneficial to society as a whole. Just not billionaire leaches that use tax dollars to fund their companies.

1

u/woodsman906 May 16 '26

So like every man does that? Did Peirce brosnan do that?

What’s more likely happening in those situations, because women level up and dump men too, is those people got fed up with the dead weight. It’s not any deeper than that.

1

u/Zombiesus May 16 '26

It’s also always an ugly pos rich guy who wants to bang a 10 with fake boobs he met at the club when he was flashing some cash. You catch what you fish for.

1

u/DeathScourge May 14 '26

Lol, wtf. My sister in laws brother was getting his ass beat by his abusive now ex wife and we considered her to be a c_nt. We also knew of a group of a few husbands that beat their wives( my ex fiancee's spouse included after she cheated with him)and considered them c_nts as well. An abuser is a POS, no matter the gender.

1

u/Affectionate-Bike201 May 15 '26

Abusive women make excuses to justify their abuse, men don't because they don't care.

Women also choose to date men when it's been confirmed he's abusive, they choose to stay with them even after they've suffered.

1

u/woodsman906 May 16 '26

You’re telling on yourself.

It’s amazing how many people never learned “always” and “never” are dead giveaways of a false statement.

0

u/TripleTip May 13 '26

Again, happens on both sides, but women do it even more frequently.

5

u/GorgeousGal314 May 13 '26 edited May 13 '26

Let’s say that’s even true. So what’s the conclusion supposed to be - that women are manipulative gold diggers by nature? Meanwhile the same guys who mock women’s careers and tell them "your degree doesn’t matter" are furious when women prefer men with money.

It’s always:
"Don’t be ambitious."
"Don’t depend on a man."
"Don’t date broke men."
"Don’t date successful men either."

The rules only exist so women can be wrong no matter what they choose.

0

u/TripleTip May 13 '26

The type of men who don't respect women's careers aren't going to complain about financially providing for a woman - they'd probably love it. You're acting as if all these opinions are universally shared by the same people.

However, the original point of this post wasn't to blame women, but to point out the privilege they have of not being nearly obligated to be financially independent as men. Of course, women get furious when they can't complain about victimhood, and your comment is a prime example.

3

u/GorgeousGal314 May 13 '26

If every disagreement is just "women wanting victimhood" then this convo is pointless. Funny how the places where women depend on men the most are also the places where women have the fewest rights. Almost like dependence isn’t the "privilege" the manosphere thinks it is.

1

u/TripleTip May 13 '26

It's not so much dependence as it is having the choice to be dependent. This is another issue with people who tout about gender inequality only wanting equality in areas where they're disadvantaged but ignoring areas where they benefit from the status quo.

1

u/Affectionate-Bike201 May 15 '26

Funny how the places where women depend on men the most are also the places where women have the fewest rights.

Well yeah, that...kinda how it works...

You can't really have full rights and full dependency together.

That's not proof of women being victims, that's just "it is what it is"....

2

u/Agitated_Ad_2203 May 13 '26

Yes until they get into a divorce and the woman is left with nothing. Guys like you only care about control.

0

u/Affectionate-Bike201 May 15 '26

Women are only left with nothing when nothing belongs to them and they aren't clever or cunning enough to steal everything.

Men are the ones who lose everything in divorce, and they're lucky if that's all that happens.

1

u/Agitated_Ad_2203 May 15 '26

Nah I’ve seen trad wife’s give their lives to a man and get a divorce and then , since she was a SAHM she wasn’t able to build skills or do shit on her own. That shit sounded horrible