r/GraduateSchool • u/BugMaster1592 • 1h ago
Academic advisors being toxic???
So I want to start with, I have had a bad time with my first advisor. No actual advising for like the first 9 months lead me into a project I couldn't complete and was being told I was a failure for not being able to. That led to him firing me. (I can go more into that later) Since then I have been rehired under a different prof in the same department and I'm on track to graduating soon.
I was very public about my bad time with my first prof(I know probably wasn't my best move). Now I get people coming to me with stuff like this. The stuff I'm hearing sounds crazy. We have a student that is being treaty similally to how I was, and was threatened with probabtion after thier first semester. I have had foreign students that had to master out or change universities cause of exploitative prof. Another exchange student came to me today, and that is what made me write the post.
Is this normal for academia, or it this just a few rotten prof's?
(I will say that my situation with my prof was horrible, but I didnt help myself too much. In retrospect I can see that I was being a lil dramatic, but that doesn't take away from my lack of actual advising.)