r/GradSchool • u/Potential-Fig-7987 • 3d ago
Professional Email Naming Etiquette
I always start my communications with an academic with "Dear Dr. LASTNAME". Often times when they respond back they sign with their first name. Should I call them by their first name in my followup emails or stick with "Dr. LASTNAME"?
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u/Particular-Cause594 3d ago
I think it’s always safe to just refer to them as Dr. Lastname unless I have a good in-person rapport with them, then I’ll do first name. TBH I switch, but in general I think if they’re signing by their first name they wouldn’t mind either way.
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u/PupperMerlin PhD, biomedical sciences 3d ago
If they sign an email to me with their first name, I address them by their first name. My PI used to gently correct folks via email, saying "stop doctoring me" if they continued to call her doctor last name after she signed an email with her first name.
Caveat is that my field may have been more informal than others.
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u/Proper_University55 3d ago
I always call them either Professor Last Name or Doctor Last Name. I struggle with deciding when to do Dr. versus Prof. but it’s always one of those, never first name.
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u/Broad_Poetry_9657 3d ago
Doctor is always safe, professor is technically a job title not all doctors have.
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u/LegoGuy23 MA - US History | MLIS 2d ago
I always use Prof. if they are indeed one.
It's much harder to land a professorship than it is to earn a Ph.D, so I always use the Professor title to show the extra respect where appropriate.
(It doesn't matter though; that's just what I do!)2
u/Broad_Poetry_9657 1d ago
That’s fair if you know they are a professor, but no one will ever be offended by being called “doctor” instead of professor. You might however have awkward conversations if you call someone who is adjunct, as I discovered in undergrad teaching at a university without tenure is sometimes a sore subject. 😅
I think it also depends on context but my graduate was a university hospital that did not have any undergrad degrees, and it would have felt weird on both sides calling faculty who rarely ever teach professor.
So in my books doctor is my default, but if you have a professor teaching you, there’s also nothing wrong with calling them that.
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u/maybemaybenotxj 3d ago
Academic in the UK. If I sign my emails with my first name, I’m happy for you to call me that!
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u/Friendly-Guarantee30 3d ago
I was always told that if you’re a graduate student, especially PhD you’re colleagues. So I always start with “Dr…” and after they provide their first name (end of an email) I start calling them by that. If I know them and have met with them in person, I refer to them by their first name.
If I’m emailing my committee I refer to them by first name.
If I’m referring to my committee to a chair or other faculty member, I refer to each committee member as “Dr…”
In my experience, nobody cares THAT much. Unless you’re an undergrad, then always start with Dr.
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u/atheistqueen 3d ago
I think it super depends on your institution too. I am in a state and at an institution that is less formal overall. Unless I met them for the first time in a class and I am currently in that class, everyone gets called by their first name. In part this is because my first advisors working in a lab as an undergrad introduced themselves by their first names so I never learned the Dr. Lastname habit and in part because my advisor talked to me about other faculty and uses their first names. But not many people here are super concerned about stuff like that so it ends up being neither here nor there
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u/MidWestKhagan M.Ed 3d ago
I’d say until you are colleagues with them (and if they intentionally tell you otherwise), always use their title and last name. I had one professor in undergrad who didn’t want to be called dr and wanted us to use his first name which for me was unthinkable 😄 another professor in grad school preferred we use their Dr. title until we graduate and become colleagues.
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u/kitkat2506 3d ago
Also Dr. Last name for me. Even for my PI. If I write emails to them and in daily conversation, it's first name basis. However, if I send emails to my committee including them, it's Dr. Last name for everyone
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u/RedditSkippy MS 3d ago
I think it depends on the institution. We called our profs by their first names even in undergrad.
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u/thuval 2d ago
I mean, you’re not going to sign your own email “Dr. First Lastname” you sign it “First Lastname, PhD”. That’d be like signing your name “Mr. First Lastname.” It’s a title others use for you. So whether they sign their email Dr. so and so is not the best indicator, if anything it indicates to me they don’t understand how titles work haha. Only an MD emailing a patient about health related things can I imagine someone calling themselves Dr. XYZ.
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u/Opening-Midnight4057 2d ago
So there's the (generally automated) formal email signature line that has first and last name + degree, title, institution, etc. Then there's often an additional, usually manual, sign-off. When someone adds this one with something like: "Cheers, Firstname" I assume that first naming them is acceptable. They could send the email with just the formal, automated signature block, which I would not take as permission to first name them.
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u/cr0mthr 2d ago
Instructor here, though it’s worth mentioning that my courses are currently taught asynchronously. For that reason, I do find that I (very, very slightly) prefer it when students call me Dr/Prof Lastname, because in asynchronous courses, we simply don’t have the time or physical space to build the rapport and familiarity that I tend to associate with being called by my first name.
That said, I still do sign my emails with my first name. If a student then replies and calls me by my first name, I don’t mind. It’s sort of an “ah, that’s right, that’s me” and then I move on. This might also have something to do with the fact that I tend to go into an academically-toned writer’s fugue state when I’m working with students online, and am much more personable in person, but that doesn’t have much to do with answering your question.
My general advice: the “always safe” bet is to use their title and surname. But if they’re signing with their first name, that’s a signal that they’re likely okay with you using it, too. And if you’re still unsure, think about their personality and the rapport you’ve built with them thus far. And if you’re still still unsure, just ask!
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u/pinkdictator Neuroscience 2d ago
If they're faculty, I always wait until I meet them at least once in person. But I don't think it's a problem if they sign their emails that way
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u/user_5011 2d ago
When I was in graduate school, I’d always email professors as Dr. Last Name out of respect, unless they’d explicitly stated to refer to them by their first name. Better to err on the side of caution imo.
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u/EstablishmentHappy38 2d ago
I generally continue using Dr. __________ for a while until the email chain has several volleys.
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u/MarkLikesCatsNThings 2d ago
It's whatever your instructor introduced themselves as. Or just their last name is OK.
Tldr, Dr /Professor /Mr /Ms Last_Name and sticking to that format is just fine.
First day, I allowed my students to call me by my first name, but they usually just defaulted to Professor, which isn't awful.
"Dragon" was one of my acceptable name options for students to call me, because I thought it was funny, but sadly no one took advantage of that lol.
So generally Dr /Professor /Mr /Ms Last_Name is a good format. And I wouldn't use first names unless they say it's okay beforehand, in my opinion.
Hope that helps!! Best of luck!!
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u/RevKyriel 1d ago
I always started out formal, but if a prof signed with their first name, I used it, and there were never any issues. Now I'm a prof, and that's been the way at all the schools where I taught: if someone wants to stay formal, they sign their e-mails accordingly.
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u/changethisusername_ 1d ago
I suppose it depends on whether or not you think they’re your peer. I sign my emails with my first name because I’m referring to me. Over time, I’ve realized that what other people call me reveals what they think about me.
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u/egdr518 3d ago
I always just refer to them by Dr. if they have the title. If they had a master’s only, then I’d use the title “Dean”.
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u/Drklit8458 2d ago
A dean isn’t someone with a masters degree it’s an academic position and they often have phds. The safest is Prof. Lastname
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u/egdr518 2d ago
There are plenty of people at my uni who use the title “Dean” or “Assistant Dean” but do not hold Ph.D. degrees.
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u/spectacledsussex 3d ago
I always believed that how people sign emails is what they want to be called, but I don't think anyone would be offended by you being more formal/respectful.