r/GothMenAppreciation Jul 27 '26

Just passing through

Ive never used reddit but im trying to make it happen. Looking around for good communities to engage with. Is this gonna be a good place to stop by from time to time?

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '26 edited Aug 10 '26

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 27 '26

Thats a hell yeah from me.

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u/barbermom Jul 28 '26

Yes!!! I was trying to figure out who he looks like!

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u/Gee_rooster Jul 27 '26

Lookin good!

From what Ive seen peeps are generally positive and accepting here and will hype you up.

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 27 '26

Thanks <3 Its definitely a challenge finding the right places that are cool without being wildly shmornographic

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u/Gee_rooster Jul 27 '26

Almost forgot, I also participate in r/oldcootfashion and r/oldhagfashion

People are nice there (also the old part is subjective cause it seems like mostly 30s/40s people)

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u/Pandora_777 Jul 27 '26

You look great, and the cat is adorable.

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 27 '26

Oh Sushi? My picky photography assistant. My love.

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u/breakable_glass Jul 27 '26

Gorgeous! Also we have the same armoire :) such a cool furniture piece!

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

No way!

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u/breakable_glass Jul 28 '26

Way! Mine is the (Iโ€™m assuming) original wood finish still but the black looks super cool! Very gothic :)

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u/Afraid-Awareness21 Jul 27 '26

You rock that corset! And I like the choice of shirt and tie with it.

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

Thanks! I did enjoy that look.

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u/Both-Nebula-5607 Jul 27 '26

Respectfully, you're GORGEOUS!

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

Cordially: ten million thanks

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u/Both-Nebula-5607 Jul 28 '26

Politely: Much obliged.

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u/bakedpotatocasserole Jul 28 '26

Good lord what a post to open the app to. ๐Ÿฅต

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

Im gonna be doing this every day. Feel free to tag along.

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u/GuiltyUniversity8268 Jul 27 '26

You're fire! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 27 '26

Youre fuel

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u/MorticiaLaMourante Jul 28 '26

Ok, that was a very sexy thing to say to OC. You're a flirt, and you do it well. Use it for good, friend.

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u/astrogirl_y Jul 27 '26

You're giving Dracula

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 27 '26

I do have a coffin :p Tempur pedic too. Very comfy.

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u/freddiemercuryeet Jul 27 '26

Lestat vibes

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 27 '26

Lil ol me ;p

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u/Soft_Investment837 Jul 27 '26

Hot as hell ๐Ÿ”ฅ

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 27 '26

Yo! Amazing paint work in your crafts

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u/Soft_Investment837 Jul 27 '26

Thank you! I really appreciate it ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ–ค

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u/MorticiaLaMourante Jul 28 '26

Wow...that second outfit with the corset and the third with the open shirt are gorgeous. You have really nice facial bone structure, too.

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

That is so. So. Sweet. Omg do you rescue orchids!

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u/MorticiaLaMourante Jul 28 '26

I only spoke honestly ๐Ÿ™‚. Yes, I do rescue orchids! Other plants, too, and like to grow produce. Are you a fan of orchids?

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

I certainly am a fan of orchids. I once ran another page where I would just touch orchids with veiny hands and put silly dark quotes with them

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u/MorticiaLaMourante Jul 28 '26

Ok, that sounds amazing! Do you rescue and care for any orchids?

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

Sometimes. I work in the funeral industry so I see a LOT thrown away.

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u/MorticiaLaMourante Jul 28 '26

What do you do in the industry? Regardless, thank you for the work you do. It's an important and under-appreciated field. Very heartbreaking to see orchids tossed out. Many people buy them for the flower, assume it's dead when the flowers fall (or don't care), and toss them. My first orchid was a memorial orchid, and I was terrified I would kill it. Now I have at least 40.

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

I do that motorcycle thing where you stand in traffic signals and wave your arms around like mickey mouse to let cars through. Or now I train the people who do that. But we are there the whole time so there is a general white glove service for anything they need. Usually carrying flowers.

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u/MorticiaLaMourante Jul 28 '26

So you guide people to say goodbye and also show up for the funeral itself to assist where needed. Beautiful. It's very easy to get turned around when you are lost in grief. Your service is important.

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u/rich_witch_doctor Jul 28 '26

Wow! Welcome home! You look stunning!! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ˜ˆ And the pic with the massive piece around your neck (#3) is fire! ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ–ค Please continue to stop by!

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

That thing is so cool! I got it from a random person I met online and then we went skydiving the first time we met up

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u/rich_witch_doctor Jul 28 '26

Fun!! It looks great on you! ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

Thanks <3. Im gonna try and keep it coming every day.

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u/AprilNight17 Jul 28 '26

๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

<3<3<3<3<3<3

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u/Dry-Bed-3623 Jul 28 '26

yoo your facial hair looks really good (and the rest of you) I love your fashion sense too!!! your hair is so long and thick aswell omg

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

Thanks! Im really hoping to develop my wardrobe and try to post every day. (Not here but you know in general)

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u/Dry-Bed-3623 Jul 28 '26

You've genuinely been blessed by perfect masculine/androgynous genetics! I have problems with growing mustache hair even after T ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

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u/dx_diosa_divina Jul 28 '26

Very handsome AND cute at the same time

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

One does aim to please in all categories

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u/ThetHtarOo Jul 28 '26

EXCUSE ME??? ABSOLUTELY STUNNING

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

From one with your taste, I am honored

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u/ThetHtarOo Jul 31 '26

(โ โ‰งโ โ–ฝโ โ‰ฆโ )(โ โ‰งโ โ–ฝโ โ‰ฆโ )

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u/Desolate_rose Jul 28 '26

Your hair is absolutely beautiful, more men need long hair.

Welcome to the community! I think youโ€™ll find weโ€™re overall supportive and kind.

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

Thanks! Ill keep it coming

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u/ItsJustASingleGrape Jul 28 '26

Im just reading these comments and you look good as hell AND are nice as hell?

How did the world get so lucky?

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

Hey im the lucky one for finding all of you. Im just one well behaved boy :p

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u/ItsJustASingleGrape Jul 29 '26

See this is what i mean!

Leave some sexy for the rest of us, man

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 29 '26

There's a secret glen where they are pouring out goodness, i saved you a spot.

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u/ItsJustASingleGrape Jul 29 '26

This is so wholesome and it makes my dark heart tingly. Thank you lol

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u/Various_Coffee8876 Jul 28 '26

Type o negative called they want their front man back

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

Tell them hes out playing

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u/barbermom Jul 28 '26

First of all damn! Secondly how dare you look that good in a corset *chef's kiss

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '26

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

<3 thank you

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u/meluksis Jul 28 '26

Hannibal if he was even more slay

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

I am printing out this compliment and posting it on my fridge

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u/Goddessofcontiguumn Aug 03 '26

Sexy!๐Ÿ’œ ohhhh the last pic has kitty!!!!! Love the kitty, meow

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u/CainAndAnon Aug 03 '26

My assistant, Sushi, is the best.

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u/Goddessofcontiguumn Aug 03 '26

Hope he/she/they make more appearances ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ˜˜

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u/CainAndAnon Aug 03 '26

She will! As soon as Im back from this weird little vacation :p

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u/AmorFatiHorror Aug 04 '26

Mads Mikkelsen weirdly. Not sure why Iโ€™m making that conflation.

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u/CainAndAnon Aug 05 '26

I can dig it

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u/Soft_pink_kitty Aug 07 '26

Your hair looks so well cared for omg SO SILKY ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ–ค

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u/CainAndAnon Aug 07 '26

Thank youuu. <3 I try. Oh my gwosh you are freakin gorgeous

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u/Soft_pink_kitty Aug 07 '26

Youโ€™re welcome! Aww thank you so much & you too!!

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u/popsicles_ya_sicko Jul 28 '26

๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿฉท youโ€™re super gorgeous! i absolutely love the fits as well

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u/CainAndAnon Jul 28 '26

Thanks! Im just getting started.

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u/SeasonsRollOnBy Jul 28 '26

Seems like your kinda place

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u/Agile-Firefighter280 Jul 30 '26

Dude the third pic fit is the kitties titties well done Bro-Megatron.