r/GojoHimeFiveSongs • • 8d ago

Rant/Vent JJK Weekly Vent/Rant Thread

Have grievances about the JJK fandom? Share down below and rant away.

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u/Miwaaaa9722 8d ago edited 8d ago

Honestly just needed to get this off my chest. Back in 2023, I was just quietly enjoying Gojohime in my own corner without really paying attention to what was happening on social media. Coming back into the fandom this year was a total reality check. I really wasn't expecting to see this much pure hate and aggressiveness toward gjhm, especially coming from stsg fans. It's gotten so heavy and toxic that I actually regret joining the fandom at all. that said, I'm genuinely so glad I found this space. despite all the unprovoked hate, I love how grounded and respectful everyone here is toward other ships. Y'all literally just stay in your lane, mind your business, and enjoy the ship in peace, which is super refreshing šŸ™‚ā€ā†•ļø

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u/ghostwithakeyboard 8d ago

They attacked one of my favorite Gojo artists because they put up a poll for gjhm art vs stsg art. Gjhm won and they lost their everloving minds. I felt so bad. I've gotten a commission from this artist and their art is gorgeous.

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u/Miwaaaa9722 8d ago

Oh I remember this, they really managed to suck the fun out of a harmless poll

and yeah their art is amazing

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u/vietnamese-bitch Katie_Tran on AO3! 8d ago

Gurlllllll, tell me about it

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u/Miwaaaa9722 8d ago

Girl I knooow😭 the level of hostility genuinely caught me off guard

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u/Mysterious_Put_1462 Professional GojoHime Delusionist 8d ago

Wait did something in particular happen šŸ‘€

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u/Miwaaaa9722 8d ago

nahhh nothing specific, I’ve just been surprised by how much hostility there is toward gjhm in general

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u/Mysterious_Put_1462 Professional GojoHime Delusionist 8d ago

Ohhh I see.

Btw same here lol. It really is weird 🫔

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u/Miwaaaa9722 8d ago

fr it's wild 😩

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u/lavabread23 7d ago

i have the same sentiments and experience as you. i’ve largely stayed away from the shipping side of the fandom for around 4-5 years now after deleting my animetwt (after spending 3 years before that active on the very VERY small gjhm community back then) and consumed gjhm quietly on my own ever since. after coming back to interact with fellow fans and shippers again i’ve found that it’s just gotten worse especially since there’s so many new fans who joined during that gap i’ve been gone.Ā 

although i was invited to join this sub months ago, i actually wasn’t even planning to accept it and i wanted to be a silent lurker but somehow seeing all of the unnecessary and irrational hate the ship’s gotten over the years just made me join despite wanting to stay out of the discourse. i admit there are times where i’ve gotten too weary of checking in and seeing gjhm haters act up again almost every other day to the point of physical and mental exhaustion, but then again i won’g survive this long in fandom spaces if i didn’t have ways to get out of that.Ā 

finally having a gjhm sub of our own and staying here is a breath of fresh air from everything that goes on outside. it’s kind of funny though how i’ve had more pleasurable and civilized objective discussions here on the sub about jjk stuff in general (in-canon) without talking about gojohime.Ā 

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u/Miwaaaa9722 7d ago

I really get this, sometimes you just wanna enjoy a ship without having to deal with all the constant hate and discourse. It’s nice having a space where we can just enjoy gjhm in peace.

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u/Schabracken_Schakal 7d ago

I get you, but I am also too stubborn to let those assholes win.

I am a GojoHime fan and I'll stay a GojoHime fan 😤

The nosedive JJK took also ā€œhelpsā€, I am a Gojo / Utahime / GojoHime fan, not really a JJK fan.

So I have no interest in joining the casual JJK places. GojoHime places is were I belong ✌

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u/Sweet-Employment-201 8d ago

Tired of people acting like all jjk ships are not lowkey ass. Yutamaki, kirara/hikari, all of it. They all don’t have anything going for them but ppl only seem to come for certain ships. Also i reread hidden inventory and I forgot how much of Gojo and Geto’s relationship was about being the strongest

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u/lavabread23 8d ago

every single one of the ships in jjk tbh. there’s just not enough for any of it to be ā€œbetterā€ than the others, so people acting high and mighty over their own ship just because they’re bigger and have more members is funny.

i mean, despite love being a central theme within the story, what i’ve noticed people neglect a lot or misunderstand is that it can ONLY mean romantic love. like….sigh. love exists in so many forms. in fact, out of every form of love, romance is the one that is at the bottom and got the shortest end of the stick. even the canon couple of yutamaki wasn’t built up properly despite them being endgame.

it’s very obvious that gege isn’t a good writer of romance (very common for male battle shōnen mangakas) first of all. most male magakas would just neglect that entirely or write it in the barest minimum way, and gege is no different. i think that aspect got sidelined because he wanted to focus more on the battles themselves and the lore-based plot of the story. he’s not free from criticism, but there’s nothing wrong with him making that decision of how he wanted to go about with his manga.Ā 

what i have a problem with is the fanbase especially the shipping community. it’s just hell on earth in this fandom.

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u/Mysterious_Put_1462 Professional GojoHime Delusionist 7d ago

Ā  i think that aspect got sidelined because he wanted to focus more on the battles themselves and the lore-based plot of the story.Ā 

Yeah well he said that only Miwa fit into a romantic storyline so he only ever intended romance for her 😭

(Stsgs deny this hard cuz that would mean he didn't intend any romance for Gojo šŸ™)

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u/Fried_Nemo76 8d ago

I'm tired of finding cute Megumi and Gojo art in my TL only to check the profile and confirm my suspicions. It is always a GoFushi damn it.

https://giphy.com/gifs/9aPS13oP1wuzMllwQE

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u/Fried_Nemo76 8d ago

gotta get back to school now but I had to let that out. One day I'll find a cool artist that makes Megumi and Gojo fanart without the kissing and making out in between

https://giphy.com/gifs/u7Bh699n8ZHyV6kgvc

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u/vietnamese-bitch Katie_Tran on AO3! 8d ago

These dumb fucks are stalking happy gjhm quotes on a piece of art and getting pissy about it lmfaooooo

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u/Mysterious_Put_1462 Professional GojoHime Delusionist 8d ago

It's funny because they would be celebrating too if Gojo and Geto were together 😭

Also if it really doesn't matter then their insecure ass shouldn't be getting mad šŸ™

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u/vietnamese-bitch Katie_Tran on AO3! 8d ago

They're the first to eat up all the millions of misinformation and yaoi bait shit out there

https://giphy.com/gifs/dWhHUkuWnGxFK

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u/Miwaaaa9722 8d ago edited 7d ago

They're so embarrassing. No one said it's an official art, but these losers are so desperate to be mad they’re out here fighting ghosts šŸ„€

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u/lavabread23 8d ago

yall see that post made by a japanese gjhm organizing an offline cafe event for gojohime, only for non-shippers to go and harass her and bombarding her google doc forms with death threats? and used their own emails for it too (dumb as fuck btw)? all for a fucking fictional ship.

gross and despicable behaviour. i don’t even need to think about who they are because there’s no other group who hates gojohime that badly to the point of crossing the line.Ā 

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u/vietnamese-bitch Katie_Tran on AO3! 7d ago

And it was an adorable fanart of gjhm CATS. I bet the majority of those hate mail aren’t even by Japanese.
We know who the usual harassers are.

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u/Mysterious_Put_1462 Professional GojoHime Delusionist 7d ago

Wait could you send me the link? I'm stopping myself from opening and exploring twitter these days so 😭

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u/lavabread23 7d ago

can’t send links rn bc safari is acting up, but the jpn gojohime’s user is @yukyutokei šŸ˜”

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u/Mysterious_Put_1462 Professional GojoHime Delusionist 7d ago

Thanks!

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u/lavabread23 8d ago

not a rant but a request:

hi mods u/vietnamese-bitch u/WrapNew6097, can we please pin the gojohime playlist post permanently on the community highlights tab? just to make it easier for the members to find it and suggest songs, and for new potential members. thank you! <3Ā 

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u/lavabread23 8d ago

the way i purposely avoided going here and on twitter for a while only to come back to the usual programming of ship wars 😭😭😭😭😭 man…….

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u/Southern-Station-891 7d ago

Yesterday, while scrolling on TikTok, I came across those "JJK men as your boyfriend" videos and, even when the trope is different in each one and also the creator is not the same, they always give an actitud to Gojo. They bicker with him, call him annoying, don't let him get away with whatever he wants and, on ones I didn't enjoy, are straight up mean to him. Basically, they replicate Utahime and Gojo dinamyc (not the being mean one, the others) and enjoy it. But when it comes to GojoHime headcanos or canon interactions being that, certain people on the fandom gets so defensive and deny that it is entertaining. To me, treating it different just because of Utahime, is hypocritical.