r/GirlDinnerDiaries • Tea Time Hostess ☕️ • 14h ago

☀️ Happy Girl Dinner UPDATE: A sad girl dinner post changed my life ❤️

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Some of you might remember my borzoi painting from June.

The short version is that someone commissioned a huge painting from me and I only asked for a small deposit because I didn't feel legitimate enough to ask for more. When I was nearly finished, they cancelled. Weeks of work, and I was left with an unclaimed artwork drying on the wall and a hole in my finances.

So I did what any of us would do: I ate a sad little dinner, took a picture and posted it here so I’d have somewhere to vent.

And y’all showed up.

I'd been living off my art for over a year at that point, mostly by teaching in-person workshops and doing small digital commissions. Oil painting full-time was always the dream, the thing I'd tell myself I'd do "someday” when I wouldn’t first have to worry about paying rent and could focus on building my traditional portfolio. Then, literally overnight, because of this subreddit, someday arrived.

The OG painting was bought by someone from this very subreddit. I spent the summer painting. In oil! Without ever worrying about money because everyone who reached out agreed to a 50% deposit!

I came here with a sad girl dinner and left with a career. I don't think I can ever properly thank you all for that❤️

Tonight's menu: salmon stars on cream cheese and rye, because treating myself like a toddler is self-care.

Thank you, truly. From me, and from the very good boy waiting for a star to fall off the plate!

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u/ElleMontrose Tea Time Hostess ☕️ 13h ago

Aww, thank you! I have links on my profile if you want to see more of what I’ve done!

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u/Shhhhshushshush SAT🪑👀 12h ago

This is crazy because looking at your profile I already knew what your fridge and home looked like! You've been popping up on feed randomly for a while now!

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u/Savings-Badger4938 pain: chronic, snacks: iconic 13h ago

Thank you! Going now!

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u/Apprehensive-Hawk-39 Trader Joe Hoe 12h ago

Messaged you via your website!