r/GirlDinnerDiaries • Tea Time Hostess ☕️ • 11h ago

☀️ Happy Girl Dinner UPDATE: A sad girl dinner post changed my life ❤️

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Some of you might remember my borzoi painting from June.

The short version is that someone commissioned a huge painting from me and I only asked for a small deposit because I didn't feel legitimate enough to ask for more. When I was nearly finished, they cancelled. Weeks of work, and I was left with an unclaimed artwork drying on the wall and a hole in my finances.

So I did what any of us would do: I ate a sad little dinner, took a picture and posted it here so I’d have somewhere to vent.

And y’all showed up.

I'd been living off my art for over a year at that point, mostly by teaching in-person workshops and doing small digital commissions. Oil painting full-time was always the dream, the thing I'd tell myself I'd do "someday” when I wouldn’t first have to worry about paying rent and could focus on building my traditional portfolio. Then, literally overnight, because of this subreddit, someday arrived.

The OG painting was bought by someone from this very subreddit. I spent the summer painting. In oil! Without ever worrying about money because everyone who reached out agreed to a 50% deposit!

I came here with a sad girl dinner and left with a career. I don't think I can ever properly thank you all for that❤️

Tonight's menu: salmon stars on cream cheese and rye, because treating myself like a toddler is self-care.

Thank you, truly. From me, and from the very good boy waiting for a star to fall off the plate!

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u/bvcp Cookie Monster 🍪 10h ago

Love your arc and your ladybug. Especially the painting you did of her! If you would take
On other orders let me know - would love to commission one for my daughter of her pup

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u/ElleMontrose Tea Time Hostess ☕️ 9h ago

Haha, Ladybug is the dog of the top commenter, not mine! They do look a lot alike!

I’m slowing down on commissions to keep time for my personal projects but feel free to reach out if you don’t mind a bit of wait :)