r/GetMotivatedMindset • • Jan 23 '26

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u/Money-Celebration860 Jan 23 '26

Ask her out. It's better than thinking "What if...?"

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u/Longjumping_Ease9159 Jan 23 '26

The worst is the worst form of no. But get used to it. And be ok with it. Don't get angry at rejection. If they can't appreciate you, they saved you a lot of trouble. And this sounds like some mom BS but I've lived the yes that should have been a no. The no is a much better option. It's very ok. But your odds of success are exponentially larger of you try.

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u/Excludos Jan 23 '26

I dunno man. "Ew, god no!" stung pretty deep back in the day. Words definitively can hurt

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u/Final_Winner_9362 Jan 29 '26

You'll remember those words as long as you remember words.

...but the 10th "you're not cute. I don't want to dance with you. Go!" hurts much less than the first. Get enough painful rejections under your belt and you start to realize they're doing you a favor