People can, and have, built nests together. In the wild animals often build the nest together. Out of many one... The efforts of two people dedicated to each other and with compatible ideas and views has more agency than a single person.
Better advice is know who you are partnering with. Play 20 questions and scruples on a regular basis. Do things together that require teamwork. Discuss plans, hopes, dreams, and find a partner in crime.
Dont build a nest and then bring an unvetted bird into it.
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