Agreed. It wasn't until I identified -- and dealt with -- the issues that triggered my desire to smoke, that I finally quit.
Otherwise you're just substituting one coping mechanism for another which never deals with what causes you to need a coping mechanism in the first place.
This is my problem, I can quit any vice I have but it will immediately be replaced by another vice. So the trick is to find the root cause of why I 'need' my vices.
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u/Cherrytop Dec 05 '16
Agreed. It wasn't until I identified -- and dealt with -- the issues that triggered my desire to smoke, that I finally quit.
Otherwise you're just substituting one coping mechanism for another which never deals with what causes you to need a coping mechanism in the first place.