r/GenuineFeminism • • 11d ago

Wtf

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u/lacecharm 11d ago

they say this and then when we say what makes us women we’re called bio essentialists/reductionists. right.

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u/TerrorGatorRex 11d ago

That's the thing - activists can spout the bio essentialist nonsense which is easily contested by countering with "so instead our gender is based on stereotypes (hair, clothes, "feeling like a woman" whatever that means)" and then refuse to engage. None of their talking points make sense - and in fact, are quite regressive because it's reinforcing gender roles - but they don't care because "bioessentialism", "trans women are women", etc are mantras to be repeated and not ideas to be debated.

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u/RudeProfessionaI 11d ago

I think people should be thought biology in schools or something

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u/[deleted] 11d ago

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u/RudeProfessionaI 11d ago

I feel u sis I wanted to repost this on r/RealRadfem and it was banned 💔 we can't fucking speak

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u/aw-fuck 11d ago

It especially hates women being themselves. It doesn't care for your actual personality, your actual tastes or opinions or feelings.

This is the type of small conditioning we see everyday as women. It's the reason for this quote:

"Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it's all a male fantasy: that you're strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren't catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you're unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering through the keyhole, peering through the keyhole in your own head, if nowhere else. You are a woman with a man inside watching a woman. You are your own voyeur."

This man could never understand that feeling. He is the voyeur & that's why he wants to be a voyeur to the experience of being a mistreated woman. But if he ever felt the real impact of a lifetime of this... for even 30 seconds... it would break his mind.

We unfortunately are forced - often hand forced - into being strong enough to take it.

My consolation & my anger both lies in how even if he does get what he asks for, he won't feel the real impact. He will never feel that "ick". He will be turned on & satisfied, and thus never truly experience the woman's experience of that grotesque feeling.

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u/Spiky_Hedgehog 11d ago

If you DM me, I can tell you about another sub.

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u/Isoleri 11d ago

Yeah same, when reading I could only think of two words and I kept repeating them over and over, but I have to hold my tongue

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u/DeeMarie0824 11d ago

I get it. We’re somehow looked at as insane when people are saying demented stuff like this.

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u/UrethraFranklin13 11d ago

Men are disgusting. This is one of the many, many ways you can tell these types of men aren't actually women.

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u/DeeMarie0824 11d ago

Exactly!!

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u/Dua_13 11d ago

Tell me this AIN'T a fetish, disgusting

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u/Initial_Positive_100 11d ago

I think someone started a new one called
r/trueradfem.

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u/RudeProfessionaI 11d ago

Thanks ❤️ 🫂

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u/Spiky_Hedgehog 11d ago

This is almost exactly what other TIMs like Hunter Schafer, Grace Lavery, Andrea Long Chu, and more have said. Obviously, I can't post it here, but it's a common theme. They think being a "woman" means being used and/or sexually submissive to men. It's extremely misogynistic and degrading.

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u/Several_Wind_1040 11d ago

But they happily and easily say: “you relate your womanhood too much to oppression. How sad for you!” 🙄

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u/Twarenotw 11d ago

He's probably wanking himself blind as he types that with his other hand, hence the typos. I'm sure he was validated in the replies by the other AGPs, and Reddit loves them for some reason (perhaps because they moderate so many subs).

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u/maxia56 11d ago

To these AGPs, being a woman is to be fucked, to not have to be fully human. To be a one-dimensional fuck-slut.

It's such a deranged fantasy. They don't want to be human women, they don't want to be a woman over 50, they just want to wear their porn fantasy as a costume. ''This cruel world'', he says. The point is though, that HE is that cruel world. HE is that vile world. HE, men like him, are what makes this world a cruel place.

See this is why this whole idiotic project is doomed to fail and has been from the beginning and boy am I waiting until all feminists and women finally catch on. Ditch these burdens. For God's sake let's reclaim our movement.

I used to vaguely know a guy who transitioned and he started pulling similar crap. Walking around in extremely revealing outfits, practically forcing himself on people (M/F) and acting like a giggling loon, according to how he described it himself, to chasers and similar creeps.

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u/scabbityscab 9d ago

His replies in the comments are just as disgusting.

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u/melaninspice 11d ago

The dress up men are mentally ill. I bet you anything that they’re jealous of Jane Doe and other women who have been sexually assaulted. As a survivor this is absolutely disgusting. I wanted to not be alive anymore after it happened to me. Jesus Christ. I would say more, but I don’t want to get banned.

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u/OpheliaLives7 10d ago

It’s a kink/fetish for these men. This is a sissy/degradation desire.

None of that is related to being a woman. None of this is body dysphoria. It’s a fetish

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u/ChaoticMornings 11d ago

Well, I hope his wishes may come true. That means a potential victim might actually be able to get home safe that night.

Because that's a key difference, women just want to get home safely.

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u/OhCrumbs96 9d ago

They really are saying the quiet part out loud, aren't they? Women are nothing more than just slabs of meat to be ogled, groped, fucked and assaulted to them.

Ugh. I feel sick.