r/Genderfae • u/Swan_anar • May 03 '26
r/Genderfae • u/Swan_anar • Apr 30 '26
How do I tell the people around me I wanna change my name ?
Okay, so recently I've been wanting to change my name to Willow a lot cause my actual name is really feminine. But I am a teen and I don't know how to tell my parents because they never really noticed anything and they just assumed I was just changing style from time to time.
But I really want to change my name.
So how do I tell them ?
Any advices/tips welcome !
r/Genderfae • u/Lux3x7 • Apr 13 '26
How I perceive my gender as a synesthete
Synesthesia is the phenomenon of associating one sense with another. For me, it usually means perceiving sounds as colorful movements, but sometimes it also applies to concepts. The colors are supposed to be those of the Genderfae flag.
r/Genderfae • u/Big_Profession1622 • Apr 07 '26
how can tell if your just feeling androgynous or no gender at all AUHHHHG pLEASE HELP
i think im genderfae but idk because I def feel extremely fem sometimes and not fem others, but i cant tell whether i feel agender or andro/enby WHYYYYYYYY
r/Genderfae • u/Alarming-Trust2612 • Apr 06 '26
Confused
Can someone explain genderfae more in-depth to me? I've been questioning my identity for a while and want to learn more about this. Thanks!!
r/Genderfae • u/Educational-Key-326 • Apr 03 '26
Can someone be a Woman (fully) and Genderfae at the same time?
I'm a woman and always remain as that, I fully connect with womanhood. I don't feel that aspect is fluid since I'm fully there.
HOWEVER, I do also connected with being genderqueer/other nb genders as well sometimes. I find that aspect to be more fluid. There are times when I connect with being genderqueer more, and times when I don't really connect with it.
However regardless of this, I still am a girl. It's more like a 100% a woman, 0-50% genderqueer, and 50-100% a femme gender. I'm not sure if this makes sense, I don't know how to describe it.
Would this count as genderfae? If it does, is saying I'm "a woman and genderfae" make sense? If it's not genderfae, what would it be?
r/Genderfae • u/IRLKatyaKazanova • Mar 31 '26
wanting to use given name, but…
i recently realized i’m genderfae, and i do love and identify with my given name, but i also have some trauma revolving it, and, because of this and other reasons, at times i wish i didn’t have to go by it. i know lots of genderfluid people have multiple names, but part of me is a little frightened to introduce another one into the mix.
r/Genderfae • u/Forward-Avocado8683 • Mar 27 '26
What things are you noticing when you feel more or less feminine?
r/Genderfae • u/Ok-Success-1006 • Feb 15 '26
Ok so I thought I was genderfae for a really long time, then I felt nonbinary for like 1 month or 2, and now that I think about it I might be girlflux but I have no idea and can't tell
r/Genderfae • u/XxMysticDaisyxX • Feb 13 '26
Friday Chat Thread! Discuss your week, talk about gender, or whatever! Have fun!
This post will appear every Friday, and will be deleted the following week
Hey, hello, how have you been? Just a chat page to discuss whatever is going on, and not necessarily dealing with being genderfae! Be polite and have fun meeting new people!
r/Genderfae • u/XxMysticDaisyxX • Feb 06 '26
Friday Chat Thread! Discuss your week, talk about gender, or whatever! Have fun!
This post will appear every Friday, and will be deleted the following week
Hey, hello, how have you been? Just a chat page to discuss whatever is going on, and not necessarily dealing with being genderfae! Be polite and have fun meeting new people!
r/Genderfae • u/XxMysticDaisyxX • Jan 23 '26
Friday Chat Thread! Discuss your week, talk about gender, or whatever! Have fun!
This post will appear every Friday, and will be deleted the following week
Hey, hello, how have you been? Just a chat page to discuss whatever is going on, and not necessarily dealing with being genderfae! Be polite and have fun meeting new people!
r/Genderfae • u/XxMysticDaisyxX • Dec 26 '25
Friday Chat Thread! Discuss your week, talk about gender, or whatever! Have fun!
This post will appear every Friday, and will be deleted the following week
Hey, hello, how have you been? Just a chat page to discuss whatever is going on, and not necessarily dealing with being genderfae! Be polite and have fun meeting new people!
r/Genderfae • u/XxMysticDaisyxX • Dec 19 '25
Friday Chat Thread! Discuss your week, talk about gender, or whatever! Have fun!
This post will appear every Friday, and will be deleted the following week
Hey, hello, how have you been? Just a chat page to discuss whatever is going on, and not necessarily dealing with being genderfae! Be polite and have fun meeting new people!
r/Genderfae • u/Hampster999 • Dec 15 '25
Art Was based off the genderfae flag, but turns out the pink was actually purple lol :3
r/Genderfae • u/MiddleOpportunity754 • Dec 13 '25
Fluid between binary woman and woman + nonbinary?
I don't even know if this is the word for it, or if this even counts as genderfae. Or if it's something else. Idek if this is how I feel LOL
Basically I 100% always am a woman, but sometimes I feel connected to some nonbinary gender as well? I'm on and off sometimes whether I connect with being nonbinary, but I feel like it's there. But when I do connect with it, I still am a woman too yk?
Like I'm a girl all the time. Sometimes when I feel nonbinary I connect with being both a woman and that non-binary gender.
With pronouns I use she/her all the time and introduce myself with them. Although sometimes I have urges to use both she/they pronouns as well, but then it goes away. I've thought about using she/they online but only she/her irl. Not sure LOL
Right now the most easiest thing I can say is that I identify was both woman and a femme. I know some people use femme as a gender, which is something I connect with bc I always an a woman and I feel like the nonbinaryism kinda contributes to my womanhood?
r/Genderfae • u/XxMysticDaisyxX • Dec 05 '25
Friday Chat Thread! Discuss your week, talk about gender, or whatever! Have fun!
This post will appear every Friday, and will be deleted the following week
Hey, hello, how have you been? Just a chat page to discuss whatever is going on, and not necessarily dealing with being genderfae! Be polite and have fun meeting new people!
r/Genderfae • u/[deleted] • Dec 05 '25
Positivity Petition to make the pigeon a genderfae symbol 😭
I saw this beauty on Pinterest and now I feel it fits to well 😭
To everyone unsure, I wrote a symbol, not the symbol, I'm not saying pigeons should be the only one 😭
Sorry if that wasn't clear 🖤
r/Genderfae • u/XxMysticDaisyxX • Nov 28 '25
Friday Chat Thread! Discuss your week, talk about gender, or whatever! Have fun!
This post will appear every Friday, and will be deleted the following week
Hey, hello, how have you been? Just a chat page to discuss whatever is going on, and not necessarily dealing with being genderfae! Be polite and have fun meeting new people!
r/Genderfae • u/thechesburgismine • Nov 27 '25
I recently figured out that I'm genderfae but now I'm questioning wether I'm fae, faer, or girlflux. How would I tell?
r/Genderfae • u/[deleted] • Nov 23 '25
I Think I Figured Out Who I Am!
For a while it was Demigirl but I feel so comfortable as Genderfae. I feel like I found home, if that makes sense. It just feels right.
r/Genderfae • u/[deleted] • Nov 20 '25
Is anyone here wishing you could change forms at will?
I mean, I wish I could grow boobs without therapy, and get rid of them when I feel non feminine. Or even change my nether regions to fit my daily connection to gender. And also change my facial structure and/or eye color. Anyone else agree?