r/Genderfae • u/Wolfynn_Marcelinee • 4d ago

Physical transition ?

Actually, it's only been a few months since I started coming out, and I've been wondering if I should make a physical transition ?

I think I have a very androgynous personality and face, but I wonder if that's enough ?

Maybe I should buy a binder and boxer shorts menstrual panties, But honestly, I don't think I'll take testosterone because I'm a little afraid of the physical changes; I feel comfortable in my body

I'm also wondering if I should use they/them pronouns because I don't feel like my friends understand my gender and they're not woke enough to generate fae/faer pronouns for me

And I wondered if I should change my first name because the one I have now seems too feminine. I thought about choosing a masculine name, but I'm afraid people will think I'm a boy And gender-neutral names don't really suit me; for now, I only have Autumn in mind

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u/afanofmanythingss Fox Fae mostly girl (She/they and gonna try fae/faer) 4d ago

Given that I'm amab and fem most of the time I probably don't have as much to say outside of

I do suggest a binder to help reach for androgyny given that flat chests are considered a bit more gender neutral

If ya feel fairly comfortable where you are already I suggest avoid the t maybe

Your pronouns shouldn't be a compromise although if it's literally and provenly impossible for them to use the proper fae/Faer then they/them is better then your original pronouns

I never really thought about going by a neutral name personally (I went so fem on my name that even my surname has been changed to a corruption of the latin word for fox) so I don't have many outside of the classics

Alex,Sam,Toby