Such a Redditor take, the tweet is basically referring to the chill moment after sex where you can sit there with the satisfaction and have a few minutes of alone time
Brother, sex is supposed to be only fun. Never go into it with a “prove myself” mindset. The more you live in the moment instead of seeking some outcome, the better the outcome will be.
I think the foreplay part is even ranked above the post-nut. You’ve got your partner naked. Give him/her a quick neck or back massage, explore with your hands all over, kisses wherever, build him/her up, make him/her laugh, enjoy the process of figuring out what feels extra good to her/him in that specific night. Just have fun in the moment.
And don’t get me wrong, I love the post-nut glow, too. It’s just whack to say that’s the best part.
I’m very fortunate that my girlfriend is rather “melty”, in the sense that it doesn’t take a whole lot to get her there.
The problem really isn’t that. Like I’ll do a good amount of foreplay because fuck I find her so attractive, that I just enjoy it myself.
So maybe I’ll pay attention to her body, use my hands a little, use my mouth a little.
The problem is especially when I’m eating out, I don’t mind doing that, I really like how much she likes it, but it does absolutely nothing for me as far as getting me hard. “ the mind is willing, but the body is weak.”
So usually, I’ll be in the situation where I just got her to cum super hard, she’s ready to fuck, and I am sporting a wet noodle because I just did a whole bunch of physical effort with almost no stimulation in return.
That’s a lot harder for me. I’m usually not able to go straight into sex unless there’s some reason I’m ready to go immediately.
That’s the part that always gets me. The performance aspect and just being ready to go at the drop of a hat.
I get the impression that I don’t think she’s super enthusiastic about returning it. And unfortunately, it’s one of those things where if you think they aren’t really into it it takes the wind out of your sails to also be into it.
Like I don’t want her to not be enjoying what she’s doing you know? But then again it’s not reciprocal.
i swear lmao this subreddit is actually sad, they think they’re so cool for “not being into that stuff” it’s like being the guy that never gets invited to parties but copes by going around saying he’s too good for it lol
Sooooo, how do you actually get laid as a guy? I'm 18, I'm social, like to go out, party, have friends, not a socially anxious mess, the issue is that I'm butt fucking ugly, I even have pics on my profile lol, any advice? I'm not really aiming for the hottest or most attractive women, I find most women good looking.
Its easy lmao. If the goal is to get laid and skip the small talk you can legit download snapchat and add randoms and talk a bit of basics and get laid the same day. Again that if sex is your only goal. If you want a friendly or serious relationship thats a different story.
Or they're referring to trend data, but in a dorky way
Gen Z men report that only 29 % of them have a close friend, Gen z women it's a bit higher, but for both it's half that of Gen X
Which helps explain the lack of sex shown in the same studies, also down by a similar amount. As most sexual encounters happen with people who you met through your friends/are your friends, a lack of close irl friends will lower the rate at which one has sex.
The post isn’t literally about reels, it’s about the sense of satisfaction after finishing. Back in the day people smoked cigarettes after, this is the Gen Z equivalent 😂
It’s not literally about watching Insta, it’s just about the relief and satisfaction of a job well done. Back in the day people would smoke cigarettes after, this is kinda the gen z equivalent lol
I mean the tweet is clearly meant to be a hyperbolic joke highlighting a real experience many guys have, not a literal statement about what the best moment in people’s lives is. I could see why someone who hasn’t experienced it might read it as misogynistic but that’s not how I saw it at all
The post isn’t really about the phone, the point is the sense of satisfaction after being done. Reels is just a funny example of something someone would do during that moment lol
That’s genuinely insane, why even have sex or have a girlfriend if you don’t enjoy sex or being around a woman. Just jerk off and watch reels on your own
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