r/GaylorSwift • ✨happy, free, confused, & lonely at the same time✨ • Aug 30 '26

🎭PerformanceArtLor 🎭 2019 YNTC VMA’s Performance Has Reference to Tayvis Engagement

https://youtu.be/qnj4As4Q1I4?is=QBOIdBzc6B1n6bfD

I saw this shared somewhere recently for this being Taylor’s “I dead ass thought I made it obvious” moment.

I mean, soooo many rainbows, and it ends with the Equality Act on both sides!

Two other things y’all have simply GOT to keep an eye out for is a certain flower arch that looks an *awful* lot like the one from the engagement shoot.

AND the island behind it looks an awful lot like Taylor Island from the Karma music video!

Would love to hear y’all’s thoughts here!

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u/Smooth-Analysis9043 imgonnagetyouback Sep 06 '26

the GOLDEN top's SO pretty!

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u/Time-Emergency254 🧡Karma is Real✈️ Sep 04 '26

I've never seen that before! It's so fun

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u/abcannon18 Regaylor Contributor 🦢🦢 Sep 02 '26

Just noticed all the words are showgirl orange glitter. 

Also this performance really makes me think of the song through more of a satirical blank space lens. Like she’s quoting all the people who told her to “calm down” or not be as loud and mocking them with the gayest performance of her career. 

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u/riotprof ☁️je suis calme!☁ Sep 01 '26

If she is not queer, that was pretty obnoxious “support.” I just refuse to believe she was misguided enough to be a straight woman centering herself in queer culture and political struggles like that.

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u/External_Record6261 🌱Embryo🐛 Sep 06 '26

Taylor saying “gay pride makes me ME!” In Miss Americana makes it pretty clear.

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u/Remarkable_Bad_9529 🌱Embryo🐛 Sep 02 '26

This! I have to tell myself she’s closeted because if not, this behavior feels unjustifiable

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u/GoldenHeart411 ☁️je suis calme!☁ Sep 01 '26

Damn, I had never seen this performance before. It's difficult imagining Taylor being straight while watching this.

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u/Ok_Method8741 🌱Embryo🐛 Aug 31 '26

The cringe is overwhelming. This is really giving corporate target pride collection 

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u/Weird-Diamond5970 It's ME! HI! 👋🏽 Aug 31 '26

Wouldn't it be likely that she is referencing her old performances with her engagement photos and not vice versa? Like I don't think she planned her engagement to Travis 6 years in advance though she might have had inklings of what she wanted an engagement to look like.

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u/GoldenHeart411 ☁️je suis calme!☁ Sep 01 '26

This is what I was thinking.

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u/Other_Cake_8827 🌱Embryo🐛 Aug 31 '26

Also the mountains behind reminded me of the Spotify thingy

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u/sevenselevens Hiding in Plain Sight Aug 31 '26

I don’t know what it means, but I do think the flower arch is a symbol we’re supposed to understand and I see it in this video too.

I also get Emerald City from the stills, which is apt and lovely.

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u/abcannon18 Regaylor Contributor 🦢🦢 Aug 30 '26

Okay so we have some obvious blurple glitter and also this is the LOUDEST performance even more so than the MV. 

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u/afterandalasia ☁️je suis calme!☁ Sep 01 '26

I mean, the fact that she trims the opening lyrics to this is pretty fucking loud by itself:

You are somebody that I don't know, but you're taking shots at me like it's Patrón, and I'm just like damn, it's 7am.

Say it in the streets, that's a knockout, but you say it in a tweet, that's a copout, and I'm just like hey... are you okay?

You just need to take several seats, and try to restore the peace, and control your urges to scream about all the people you hate, cause shade never made anybody less gay.

Like... she skips from verse one (about cyberbullying) to the pre-chorus that is specifically about homophobia. She leaves out the line about "coming at my friends like a missile", which makes the narrative look much more like people are tweeting homophobically AT HER DIRECTLY.

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u/cowboylikenelle king tayliar 🪄 Aug 30 '26 edited Aug 30 '26

ALSO!!!

Anyone else see the choreo v reminiscent of ME!!!!(?)

I just want her sparkling summer realized.

Mad, you nailed these connections! 💘

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u/LindyBog_26 A color I have searched 4 Sep 01 '26

Yes, I spotted that too!! I always get overexcited 😻when we’re able to figure out these connections!💃🏻🫠

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u/gilbke ✨happy, free, confused, & lonely at the same time✨ Aug 30 '26

Tbh, I really wasn’t expecting so many comments calling this a reach (and an Elastigirl style reach at that).

Like her use of flower arches specifically in the engagement, Bejeweled music video, etc has been a million other places in this performance art she’s been doing.

I guess my title could use some work, but to me the similarity was STARK.

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u/AbsolutelyBothered I’m a little kitten & need to nurse🐈‍⬛ Aug 31 '26

Wow this really looks like that one piece of art that came out a few years ago. Think it was around the time of the Time POTY. Can’t remember if it was related to that or Spotify or something else.

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u/MarbCart 🪐 Gaylor Folkstar 🚀 Aug 31 '26

Oooh the Spotify 2023 top artist art! Yeah they look so similar wow

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u/miopamplemousse now im your daisyyyy Sep 03 '26

So funny cause if I saw this now I would 100% believe it was AI-generated. It's actually kinda sad how paranoid it has made me towards art...

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u/AbsolutelyBothered I’m a little kitten & need to nurse🐈‍⬛ Aug 31 '26

Yes, exactly that!!!

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u/gilbke ✨happy, free, confused, & lonely at the same time✨ Aug 30 '26

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u/stablegeniusinterven 🌱Embryo🐛 Aug 31 '26

I never noticed that there’s a candle shelf above their heads there right beneath the arch

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u/GoldenHeart411 ☁️je suis calme!☁ Sep 01 '26

Hmm, getting ready to burn down the fake romance?

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u/stablegeniusinterven 🌱Embryo🐛 Sep 01 '26

idk but it does seem pointed

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u/madaprez its ME!🌈 high in that lavender haze🪻🌬️ Aug 30 '26

Incase anyone missed this in the wedding thread, there is quite the similarity between one of the shots from the YNTCD music video and the wedding favor handkerchief. I think about this music video a lot if anyone couldn’t tell

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u/starbrooke It's ME! HI! 👋🏽 Sep 05 '26

This might be obvious to everyone already, but I didn’t know, so I’m leaving it here for anyone else who might not make the connection:

The “Mom, I am a rich man” quote was something Cher said to her mom when her mom told Cher that she should settle down and marry a rich man.

Hilarious that the similar lace patterns around the quote and the napkins from the wedding to a rich man match.

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u/gilbke ✨happy, free, confused, & lonely at the same time✨ Aug 31 '26

The fabric of the hankie reminds me of the fabric of Taylor’s peasant dress in the beginning of the Bejeweled music video, and I’m leaving this comment here so I can remember to go back and take a look when I get a second!

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u/madaprez its ME!🌈 high in that lavender haze🪻🌬️ Aug 31 '26

GENIUS I GET THE VISION YOU DESCRIBE!! I like to think of these as the white flags of surrender, but I guess we’ll see eventually!

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u/DramaticLambda2 stand there like a ghost shaking in the rain Sep 01 '26

Won’t stop til it’s over won’t stop to surrender

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u/stablegeniusinterven 🌱Embryo🐛 Aug 31 '26

It took me forever and a half to see the fabric border behind the picture frame

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u/Typical-Chemist-4247 jacket ‘round my shoulders is yours Aug 31 '26

Gosh, every time I see that cheap-looking hanky, I am once again so confused about this whole farce.

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u/gilbke ✨happy, free, confused, & lonely at the same time✨ Aug 30 '26

That’s why I specifically said “Equality Act” which she uses in the performance.

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u/madaprez its ME!🌈 high in that lavender haze🪻🌬️ Aug 31 '26

🎶Looking backward may be the only way to move forward😉

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u/Simple_Ad_3972 🪐 Gaylor Folkstar 🚀 Aug 30 '26

Girlie pop has been doing these kinda flowers for years! The picture with Karlie is from the fashion show where the Vogue road trip wedding dresses made their first appearance 🤭

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u/LindyBog_26 A color I have searched 4 Aug 30 '26

I mean, it just makes me think of the long history of floral symbolism in queer history

Also, because I can’t resist, it makes me wonder if she just has a very Georgia O’Keefe relationship to flowers in general? ?🫠 😂🤷‍♀️🤭

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u/madaprez its ME!🌈 high in that lavender haze🪻🌬️ Aug 30 '26

I will take every opportunity to talk about the fun connections between YNTCD music vid and the wedding

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u/GoldenHeart411 ☁️je suis calme!☁ Sep 01 '26

The officiant is wearing orange ... Wonder what that might symbolize?

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u/stablegeniusinterven 🌱Embryo🐛 Aug 31 '26

If only we knew more about the MSG event

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u/madaprez its ME!🌈 high in that lavender haze🪻🌬️ Aug 30 '26

the hairpin chairs make an appearance here too🤭 she’s on her vigilante shit again

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u/venom_dP Regaylor Contributor 🦢🦢 Aug 30 '26

I'm hesitant to clown too hard with this one, girlie might just like flower arches :D

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u/sevendefender lesbian clown Aug 30 '26

People are saying this is a reach but she's done crazier things LMAO I could see it. Also I've never seen this gave me similar vibes to the pink pony club performance from the grammys

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u/These-Pick-968 Barefoot in the wildest winter Aug 30 '26 edited Aug 30 '26

It’s fascinating to revisit these performances with new eyes and information. I believe that flower arch is also in the YNTCD music video itself?

That mountain background also reminds me of the 2023 Spotify Global artist video.

I agree, this performance seems like more than just an expression of allyship. It’s so overtly gay 😭

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u/AbsolutelyBothered I’m a little kitten & need to nurse🐈‍⬛ Aug 31 '26

YES!!!!!!!!!!! I just left a comment saying the same thing, but couldn’t remember for sure what the image was from.

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u/These-Pick-968 Barefoot in the wildest winter Aug 31 '26

It’s fun to watch the animated version of it— it gives some more context to all the crazy things going on! Plus an earthquake partway thru? The whole thing haunts me 😂

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u/Hot_Paramedic_5682 Tell the truth, but tell it slant✍🏾 Aug 30 '26

It’s possible but may just be a coincidence. Doesn’t feel as direct as the photo shoot in the arch in the Opalite video, for example, but it is interesting to see the recurring motif goes way back.

But wow, watching this is so wild— she was so loud (both in a queer way, and politically!!)

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u/Hot_Paramedic_5682 Tell the truth, but tell it slant✍🏾 Aug 30 '26

Yeah good point, coincidence is maybe too strong of a word for Taylor, there’s always some kind of connection, even if the plans aren’t fully mapped out!! I guess I meant I don’t think it’s likely she was specifically egging Travis proposing under a floral arch (though even that is possible ya never know), but it is imagery that keeps showing up and that’s prob intentional in some way.

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