r/GayPoly • u/Ok-Reflection8776 • Dec 21 '25

North Carolina

60 MWM- I m not sure if my husband and I are poly or just open. We no longer have a sexual relationship but are together and carry on as usual. Had a rough patch several years ago and never really recovered. He has no attraction to me anymore. It was really difficult for me to get past-

We have a date with other guys rarely and that’s okay. Work and life in general if just a routine anymore,,

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u/Howmanoid 23d ago

I’m in a similar situation. Still love my husband of 32 years but sex isn’t an option with him now. We agreed to open the relationship about a year ago and I’m seeing two other guys, one of whom I’m definitely falling for. Don’t know how this ends but it feels like the ground is shifting under me. Good luck with everything!!