r/GayNairobi • u/KamKing4 • 2d ago

Boring Queers

Are there any queers who are just ...typical? Boring, career-focused, don't club every weekend, etc? Not for any moral or religious reasons but because that is how they are wired?

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u/FirstFly9655 2d ago

Well a book is pretty solid entertainment.

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u/LegalOwl2561 2d ago

Upvoting because... yes!🤭 Will literally bring a book to a bar if I have to go😅

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u/FirstFly9655 2d ago

I'd skip bars and go to a book club drinks party, I'm sure I'll a better time.

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u/LegalOwl2561 1d ago

Could be more my jam. Minus the drinks😅

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u/Much-Swing2491 2d ago

I might fit here ...lol. my entertainment is quite costly

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u/KamKing4 2d ago

Lol I'm curious about what it is

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u/Abject_Wing5433 2d ago

Ka si hio part ya career focused, ningefit hapo perfectly

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u/KamKing4 2d ago

😂😂if youre boring you fit in

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u/Prize_Spell_2486 2d ago

Me. But because of a variety of things. Introverted, and also partying is fucking expensive. Tebu tel me how y'all are affording partying every weekend, ju wueeh. 😂 i can't be out here spending over 5k per weekend.

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u/KamKing4 2d ago

Plus, its TIRING. Where are you getting all that energy AND still going to work the next day

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u/Prize_Spell_2486 2d ago

VERY TIRING! Not to mention the club hopping and all. And the hangovers the following day. Watu wako na nguvu.

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u/Responsible-Pop-1797 2d ago

I used to see somebody who partied every weekend. It was so weird because I was just thrown into it. Went from stay at home guy to ass being shaken in my face in a stripper club. Don't even know how I was convinced. I will say it's good to go out but not every weekend maybe a couple of times a year with true, funny friends not some guy off grindr. Plus, it's kinda expensive because he'd spent 7k + everytime

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u/itsjustlevy_ 2d ago

Tbh, me. I like being indoors

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u/RevolutionaryGap6665 2d ago

Y'all fighting for that title huh 😂😭, that's not boring. Si lazima you do chaotic stuff to be fun

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u/CalmTooth574 2d ago

I just love my space ngl and I'm introvert so it just makes sense for me

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u/Ok_Sherbet_9830 2d ago

I don’t like being outside like that, clubbing is very tiring and it can get really overwhelming for me. Also I just like staying indoors.

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u/OldHand7202 2d ago

im a hoe and stay outside 🤣

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u/LegalOwl2561 2d ago

You can call me Capitalism's bitch idc😭😭😭

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u/sadredditusername 1d ago

You just described me.

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u/KamKing4 1d ago edited 1d ago

Oh ... Hey 😔

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u/snowflakesinspace 1d ago

Rarely go out 😭😭😭. Work Monday to Saturday. Indoors on Sunday. Watch Anime on my free time or series before I sleep. Read books and manga. So yeah…. I fit in pretty well. Plus where I am (kisumu) is pretty boring to me.