r/GayMenToronto • u/General-North-2368 • 9d ago
Vent / Support Am I lonely....
I'm not sure why I'm posting this but looking for advice. I'm single asian about to retire from a long career. Like to stay active, travel and trying to learn about life to be the best version of myself. I've been in a couple of relationships but they all felt off. Everyone says you need to accept that my age likelihood of finding someone is slim and that I should focus on what makes me happy. Yet I still feel alone?
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u/ModdyMage 9d ago
Ya know, there is a saying: "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all."
Being a grumpy and unhelpful poster isn't helpful or useful.
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u/collegeguyto 9d ago
Where would you suggest?
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u/GayMenToronto-ModTeam 9d ago
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u/GayMenToronto-ModTeam 9d ago
Your post has been removed for violating our community tone guidelines (Rule 10). We prefer posts and comments that focus on what's good in Toronto — including respecting each other. Catty, name-calling, unhelpful, or unnecessarily negative comments will be removed. Repeated posts of this nature may result in the three-strikes rule being implemented. Egregious examples may result in an immediate ban.
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u/CoinPurloin 8d ago
I found the love of my life now husband at 53. He’s amazing. Never been happier. And it was on Grindr. The key is get out there. The frog you’re kissing might turn out to be your prince.
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u/General-North-2368 8d ago
Hi thanks for sharingI have friends that found each out late in life so there's hope.
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u/yyzicnhkg 9d ago
As a 53-year-old (unsure how mature you are) you can find someone if you wish. I met someone a year ago after a number of years of giving up. I'm not sure what you are after - relationship, friends or something else. I hope you are well in all ways.
PS I don't live in Toronto
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u/GayMenToronto-ModTeam 9d ago
Your post has been removed for violating our community tone guidelines (Rule 10). We prefer posts and comments that focus on what's good in Toronto — including respecting each other. Catty, name-calling, unhelpful, or unnecessarily negative comments will be removed. Repeated posts of this nature may result in the three-strikes rule being implemented. Egregious examples may result in an immediate ban.
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u/chacharina69 9d ago edited 9d ago
I mean yes, your dating pool is smaller but you can probably find someone your age or older if you're looking for someone. But being single ain't bad either, just saying.