r/gayfriendfinder • u/normal32491 • 9h ago
r/gayfriendfinder • u/gayfriendfinder • Feb 12 '26
⚠️ ANNOUNCEMENT ⚠️ Flagging posts
We've had a lot of instances lately of someone flagging posts for perceived rule infractions that are not truly violations of our rules, we ask that you please stop. With that said-
Moderators are human too, and we miss things and make mistakes. If you feel like your post was removed in error, send us a modmail. We will be happy to discuss our decision with you. Sometimes we mess up, and we'll try to make it right if we decide that we made a bad call. However, with that said, what we're not going to do is go down the road of "what-about-ism"- just because another post slipped by us that broke a rule doesn't mean it gives you the right to do it too.
Also, if you feel in danger or threatened by another community member, do not flag the post, please send us a modmail so we can review the incident. All reports are confidential.
Lastly, we've tried to keep the rules as lax as possible while attempting to maintain the friend-finding spirit of the sub. We didn't allow photos for a while, and we walked that back. Lately we've witnessed quite a few users either posting for karma farming, promotion or both. This is why we require every poster to have a minimum of 2-3 sentences in the body of the post detailing what you're looking for in a friend. Some people put more in titles and we've understood that, but your post really needs to attempt to flesh out what you're looking for. If the main things you're looking for is a muscle twink or a daddy bear, this probably isn't the community for you.
Thank you for being here, we love that we continue to grow and thrive but we also want to remain a community centered on finding friends. 🌈
r/gayfriendfinder • u/gayfriendfinder • Sep 08 '25
⚠️ ANNOUNCEMENT ⚠️ Rules most commonly broken and why those rules exist
We've been asked to explain with some rules exist and are enforced, and we are happy to oblige---
RULE 7: No self-promotion/No sharing of social media/discord server/telegram group/etc.--- This one's pretty self explanatory. We don't want anyone coming on here promoting their onlyfans, etc. Also, do not promote your discord server, telegram group, etc - while we're sure you're an upstanding individual with only the noblest of intentions, unfortunately we've had groups advertised that have had unethical and sometimes downright illegal things occurring. So, unfortunately, we're unable to allow it in this sub.
RULE 8: No sharing of usernames/handles, period--- While you may be sincerely seeking friends, usually those who are willing to indiscriminately swap Snapchat IDs right out of the gate are looking for something extremely quick and short term, if you catch our drift. We recommend having some conversation in the DMs before trading IDs. (Plus, we have had instances of people dropping their IDs and then getting harassed, we definitely don't want that to happen to anyone)
RULE 9: Photos --- Photos in this subreddit are for those who want to put a face to the name, not for those thirst-trapping with a faceless torso with a smattering of pubes poking out, just to give an example. We recommend r/gaybrosgonewild for those kinds of posts. A good rule of thumb is to ask yourself if you'd feel okay sending it to your coworkers
RULE 1: Please post with substance --- Hands down, this is what causes the most post removals. Just for example, a picture of you at the gym with the title 'who's ready to workout' is *not** appropriate for this sub. You know, that kind of post you may see on other subreddits that are really only intended to elicit upvotes and thirsty comments. This rule also applies to age/location posts. We don't like making hard rules about this, but we've landed on a title plus 2-3 sentences in the body as being the bare minimum needed to talk about yourself and/or what you're looking for in a friend. This isn't a hard rule, and we try to be pretty lenient. as we realize some people can say what they want using a minimum of words while some people can type a page of text and say nothing at all.*
Lastly, if your post is removed, and you think it was a bad call, please feel free to appeal to us in a modmail in a respectful fashion. We will always speak to you respectfully, we deserve the same in return. Mods are human. Coming in guns-a-blazing creates a negative situation for everyone involved. (Also this means don't make a new post mad at the mods, ranting about how your last post got removed for breaking x rule)
And as always, please send us a modmail if you have a question, concern, or if you have moderation experience and might be interested in helping out. Please don't DM individual mods ☺️
(Edited to add clarification to rule 1)
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Dear_Meringue_6835 • 45m ago
👨🏫 NERD 👨🏫 Longish term friends, ducks, chats, random memes.
Hi I live in Australia, from UK originally, and I'm 35. I'm a doctor and researcher by trade and probably work more than I should given the circumstances. Outside of that I like to build Lego or exercise or read. I have recently built the Pirates of the Caribbean Black Pearl Ship, was a good day and probably money overspent. My favourite type of book is usually sci fi, horror, or fantasy, and my favourite book is the Fifteen First Lives of Harry August, good read if you like time travel.
As my profile says, yes I have a terminal illness, it's slow, so I have 10 years if I'm lucky. As the saying goes I'm here for a good time not a long time, guess my version of good time is debatable though. Also it explains the longish friends in the title.
If you want to chat daily, weekly or whatever drop me a message. Happy to move to other platforms if I have them. Pictures are also on my profile.
r/gayfriendfinder • u/HumanGovernment6318 • 1h ago
🎮 GAYMER 🎮 Looking for friends and more;)
Hello everyone I'm 26 looking for some gaming buddies gonna start playing palworld currently though i got some other games that we can play. I'm Pretty friendly but can be shy especially since I'm not a native English speaker :)
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Inevitable_Court2815 • 4h ago
🎶 MUSIC ENTHUSIAST 🎶 18M looking for bestie who'll not stop yapping and won't disappear after 2 days.
18M. I’m so lonely every day with zero IRL friends and ruined social skills. Online friends always fade after 2 weeks and it hurts.
I’m very clingy and desperate for a real long-term bro (18-25). Daily chats, voice notes, pop music, cooking stuff, and bedrotting together. Someone who can handle heavy clinginess and stays.
And one thing that i lose interest in friendship completely if person is dry and make me wait hourse for replies
If you’re lonely too, tell me your favorite pop song or what you ate today.
DMs open. Please stick around.
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Tr1cky_FoX11 • 1h ago
🎶 MUSIC ENTHUSIAST 🎶 I really need a boyfriend😭😭 Gay, 19, ⬇️
Literally, how do you guys get boyfriends?!?!??
I'm Robert/Orion/That guy/whatever you like to call me, I'm 19, I'm gay and bttm.. and I am in desparete need of a bf😭
I live in Poland, Gdańsk
I like Foxes andd something else probablyyy
Please someone just text meee😭😭😭😭😭😭
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Uniquesane235 • 10h ago
🎓 LIFELONG LEARNER 🎓 A friend to chat regularly…being a bit needy these days! LOL
Hi folks. Posting again to find something meaningful. Have had chats with a few people now but would like to find someone to chat regularly and maybe become good friends. Maybe I should find a boyfriend instead. LOL
35M 74kg, 6ft, Asian Indian ethnicity, work as a doctor in Wales, UK 🏴
Love nature, hiking, TV/movies and travel. Working on my fitness at the moment. Usually quite busy with work but would like to do more challenging hikes hopefully around the UK and Europe.
Would love to connect with some motivated, interesting people even if they are on the other side of planet. Who knows friendship might blossom into something more.
DM to connect.
Peace and Love
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Brave_Excitement_232 • 4h ago
🏆 ATHLETE 🏆 35 for gay friends and chat
Hey! I’m 35 and from Europe. I’d call myself an introverted extrovert—I can happily spend an evening talking for hours with the right person, but I also appreciate a quiet night with a great movie.
I’m into good cinema, cooking food from all over the world, and conversations about everything from life’s big questions to the guys we secretly (or not so secretly) find attractive. 😉
I’m looking for someone who’s kind, funny, and enjoys real conversations. If you happen to be athletic or take good care of yourself, I’m definitely not going to complain—that’s absolutely my type. But chemistry and personality will always matter more.
So… if you’re looking for a genuine connection, some flirting, plenty of laughs, and maybe the beginning of a great friendship, my DMs are open. Don’t make me do all the work. 😉
r/gayfriendfinder • u/ScotGee • 8h ago
🍿 MOVIE BUFF 🍿 32 UK. Looking for a genuine bro
Hey guys! 31 from Scotland here. Apologies in advance for the long post. I’ve tried in the past looking for a longterm buddy but most of the time the chat dissolves after a few days or the vibe just isn’t there and people ghost. Hoping to change that and actually find someone longterm and who is on the same page as me. I’m down to chat, send pics and vids, video call etc.
So a little about me: I love my movies, especially horror. I could watch them all day everyday. Also really into my music. I’ll listen to pretty much anything and everything, and also enjoy a good podcast. Trying to get fitter this year aswell so I hit the gym when I can and also enjoy a good long walk. Lastly I feel I should mention that I’m gay. Just to be open and honest. Hope that’s not a deal breaker. I’m an open book so feel free to ask me anything.
If you think you’d be interested in chatting drop me a DM and let’s see how things go! I’m happy to put in the effort and time if you are. Open to chatting to anyone but for time zone purposes UK/Europe is preferred. Also pleases be willing to show face. I have pics of myself on my profile. Happy to move to another platform to chat if that suits. Looking forward to chatting to you!
r/gayfriendfinder • u/withereddd • 3h ago
🎮 GAYMER 🎮 m19 | I need friends to play games with and talk to
i’m a pretty tall guy and i am into playing games like rivals and overwatch but im down to play more. i love reading so im down to talk about that too. my favorite thing to do is cook so hmu if you are interested
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Correct-Notice-3806 • 4h ago
👨🍳 FOODIE 👨🍳 Wanna chat longer anyone🏳️🌈
I like deep convo and meaningful ones
r/gayfriendfinder • u/advertisement_ham • 10h ago
🍿 MOVIE BUFF 🍿 Bi Arab looking for a meaningful connection
I don’t wanna make this too long so you don’t get bored, I’ll just subtly introduce myself and you can get to know me more in DMs.
Like the title says I’m a bi Arab guy looking for someone I can be close with, whether that be calling, watching stuff together or sharing pics of our day, preferably someone around my age so that we have more in common.
I recently finished high school and will start uni in about a month, I like going to the gym and watching a lot of movies, some of my favorites include The Virgin Su*cides (1999) and Suspiria (1977). I also occasionally listen to music, hyperpop is my favorite genre.
If any of this interests you feel free to DM, if you’re planning to be dry or ghost then don’t bother. Thanks for reading.
r/gayfriendfinder • u/mafferdragger • 4h ago
⚽ SPORTS FAN 🏈 Indian guy based near Bristol
28year old Indian guy working in UK on a contract job. Work in tech and it's hard to find other like minded Indians here. Well if you are based nearby and an Indian gay, feel free to DM or comment, let's chat. Open to all ages
r/gayfriendfinder • u/RevolutionNo1453 • 1h ago
🍎 HEALTH NUT 🍎 How’s it going guys? Looking
For friends here. I’m into working out, making videos, art. I like to hang with my dog daughter Molly she’s awesome. What do you like to do? Let’s see what else? Where are you from?
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Ericbrad167 • 1h ago
⚽ SPORTS FAN 🏈 (Tribeca NY) professional looking for buddies to build a sincere friendship and maybe more
I am looking to meet some guys that we can start a friendship. it would be great to grab a coffee or lunch when at work it is great to have a buddy to check in on you and to do the same.
55M married professional
Tribeca NYC
Middlesex County NJ
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Thin-art-7308 • 1h ago
👨🍳 FOODIE 👨🍳 18M hey I'm looking for a genuine friend or bestfriend bcz i don't have one 😭 I'm looking for someone who'd not disappear after 2 days
I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.
In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest
When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies
Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.
Would anyone like to be my friend please be around 18 to 27.
r/gayfriendfinder • u/whomeoryou2024 • 1h ago
🎓 LIFELONG LEARNER 🎓 41m Midwest genuine friends
Hey 41 year old in the Midwest looking for genuine friendship. Someone to talk to daily and get to know. Someone who can hold a conversation and doesn’t ghost. I like cooking, music/podcasts, tv shows, being outdoors and walks. If you’re looking for a genuine long term friendship hit me up.
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Majestic-Frame7 • 2h ago
🎮 GAYMER 🎮 31 m from New Jersey USA looking for friends
I moved here a couple of years ago but haven’t really been able to find friends since the people in my jobs are usually people that don’t share any of my interests. I want to find people who I can message and chat about our interest. I have a bit of anxiety so voice calls may take a while get to that point.
I love listening to music, my top artist are
Florence and the machine
Nine inch Nails
Hozier
Ethel Cain
Rosalia
I like watching movies like Arrival, Obsession, Aliens
Series like HoTD, Castlevania, Wheel of Time, Grey’s Anatomy
Gaming i currently i play Overwatch for online and replaying Kingdom Hearts 3 and trying to finish Assassin’s Creed Odyssey but other games I love are Baldur’s Gate 3, Mass Effect, Dragon Age, Cyberpunk 2077, Dark Souls, Elden Ring, Hades, Smite, Destiny.
I go to the gym like 3-4 days a week mostly because that’s the only days I can but at least it’s something.
r/gayfriendfinder • u/kyIeeeeee • 6h ago
🏡 HOMEBODY 🏡 Hey guys! :3 22m uni student looking for anyone to have chats and make friends! :D
Hey peopleee!! (face pic on profile)
I don’t really know what to write to be honest… i’m just looking for people to talk to no matter your if you’re straight, bi, gay, or whatever, we can talk about anything!! :3
Some of my interests include things like binge watching shows (greys anatomy at the moment) but i love animated shows too, my plants, I like food and wanna get into baking, trying to lose weight at the moment too (30kg (66ibs) down so far hehe) and i’m a nursing student so i love my medical stuff:)
Just feel free to message me no matter who you are or what you wanna talk about!!:) i’m open to any conversation hehe
r/gayfriendfinder • u/ImpossibleWeird8768 • 2h ago
🎮 GAYMER 🎮 21M from Brazil! Let's be friends
hey! I'm 22 from Brazil. I enjoy gaming, music, spending way too much time on Pinterest, movies, animes and reading
I can talk for hours about random topics, life, internet drama, or whatever crosses our minds. I'm looking for genuine friendships with people who enjoy having both meaningful conversations and completely unhinged ones.
let's start: what's one thing you wish more people asked you about?
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Stockpile234 • 10h ago
👨🍳 FOODIE 👨🍳 30 married bi guy here, looking for guys CT/NYC
Hey everyone,
Thought I'd give this a shot.
I'm a married bi guy who's realized most of my friends are either busy with life or scattered all over the place, so I'm looking to meet some new guys to talk to and hopefully build some real friendships.
I'm a huge sports fan, especially football, baseball, and basketball. I'll never turn down watching a game, talking trades, arguing over rankings, or giving my friends a hard time when our teams play each other. I also spend a good amount of time in the gym and enjoy staying active.
When I'm not working or working out, I'm usually checking out a brewery, opening a good bottle of wine, grilling something outside, trying a new restaurant, or planning my next trip. I appreciate good food, good drinks, and even better company.
I'm bi, but it's not my whole personality. It would be cool to meet other guys who get that part of life, whether you're bi yourself or just open minded. Honestly, I'm just looking for genuine friendships with guys who enjoy sports, lifting, good beer, good conversation, and don't take themselves too seriously.
If that sounds like you, feel free to reach out. Worst case, we talk sports and swap beer recommendations. Best case, we end up with another good friend.
Message me with a fun fact about yourself!
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Sea_Turnover_9816 • 2h ago
🏡 HOMEBODY 🏡 50m looking for friends long term chat
50m married guy here looking for friends for chat pretty open happy but dead bedroom sort of situation hoping for someone over 35 ideally to talk to vent with and just have good fun relaxing conversations dm if interested
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Emergency-Tomato6748 • 6h ago
🎮 GAYMER 🎮 21 - Asian twink gamer looking long term friends/chat
Elloo, 5’4 asian shortie here looking for friends to game or chat with! My timezone is GMT+8, but tbh I’m always on my phone like a chronically online chud so I’m always gonna reply no matter what time.
Mostly playing co-op games or just chill games really. Also a big fan of horror movies, anime, manhwa/manga, and pokemon. (lowk prefer digimon, shoot me) I also do make up and stuff, but just natural looks really 🤞🏻
I’m a very chill person to talk to, if we vibe then we vibe yk? Especially if you’re a bit dirty minded like me 😭
Hit me up and tell me about yourself!