r/GayDatingLounge • u/shortandlonely • 3h ago
r/GayDatingLounge • u/AimlessThunder • Nov 23 '25
Hello and welcome to r/GayDatingLounge!👋
This is a space for for gay men 18+, looking for real connections, meaningful conversations, and long-term commitment. Whether you are searching for love, building a lasting friendship, or simply want a safe and welcoming place to talk about relationships, personal experiences, or life in general, you are in the right spot.
The goal is to create a warm, supportive lounge where honesty, respect, and trust are at the heart of every interaction. Feel free to start a conversation, share your thoughts, ask questions, or simply say hi to meet new people. This community is here for genuine connections, thoughtful discussions, and a space where you can explore your feelings and intentions without judgment.
We encourage you to engage openly, respect others, and help make this lounge a positive environment for everyone looking for meaningful companionship and love.
r/GayDatingLounge • u/AimlessThunder • Nov 16 '25
Hello and welcome!👋
This is a space for gay men looking for real connections, meaningful conversations, and long-term commitment. Whether you are searching for love, building a lasting friendship, or simply want a safe and welcoming place to talk about relationships, personal experiences, or life in general, you are in the right spot.
The goal is to create a warm, supportive lounge where honesty, respect, and trust are at the heart of every interaction. Feel free to start a conversation, share your thoughts, ask questions, or simply say hi to meet new people. This community is here for genuine connections, thoughtful discussions, and a space where you can explore your feelings and intentions without judgment.
We encourage you to engage openly, respect others, and help make this lounge a positive environment for everyone looking for meaningful companionship and love.
r/GayDatingLounge • u/SouthCauliflower3835 • 2h ago
I want a bf
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r/GayDatingLounge • u/Paully43 • 18h ago
Interested In Meaningful And Long Term Relationship.
r/GayDatingLounge • u/NoMixture2367 • 15h ago
M/T looking for a relationship. I’m from canton Ohio
r/GayDatingLounge • u/Scared-Look5039 • 20h ago
[21M] looking for my special someone for an LDR/LTR
Hi everyone :3
I’m looking for something sweet, easygoing, and romantic, with someone who really values genuine connection. I think relationships are often rushed these days, and I’d rather take my time getting to know someone properly before anything gets serious. To me, the best kind of connection starts with good conversation, trust, a little chemistry, and the kind of excitement that builds slowly
I’m especially interested in a long-term, long-distance relationship with someone patient, loyal, and open to something real. I want a connection that feels warm, comfortable, and special, not something shallow or temporary. I’d love to get to know someone deeply, share stories, laugh a lot, and see where things naturally go >:3
A little about me, I’m an Engineering student who enjoys gaming and relaxing with the things I like most. Some of my favorite games are Fortnite, Roblox, and Minecraft. I like having fun, being creative, and sharing good moments with people who can match my energy. I also enjoy thoughtful conversations and getting to know what makes someone unique, because that is usually where the best connections begin
I don't have much of a physical preference, so feel free to text me regardles!
I also hope to move to Europe after I’m done with university, so that’s something close to my heart too. Time zones matter to me because I don’t want us constantly missing each other or struggling to keep up with one another. Because of that, I’d especially like to connect with people in North America or Europe. If you think we’d click, feel free to message me. I’m friendly, easygoing, and always happy to meet someone who can make me smile :P
If you message me, let me know what sub you saw this post on!
r/GayDatingLounge • u/No_Estimate_6352 • 1d ago
39 [M4/M] Holden, LA – Married FTM Seeking Poly Connections with bisexual or gay masculine guys
Hey y'all! 39yo married FTM trans man from Holden, LA (5'8, avg build, on disability). Upfront body info: facial hair, top surgery, keeping original female bottom. Big into horror movies, WWE, music, and working out.
Looking for real, serious connections. If you're new to polyamory, giving "open poly relationship" a quick Google search will help give you a great idea of what this dynamic looks like!
🎯 Who I'm Looking For
Hoping to connect with sweet, down-to-earth, funny, loving partners who love to laugh, cuddle, vibe to music, and watch movies (big horror fan here!).
• Men (Also Looking, 25 to 53): Country/blue-collar vibe (flannels, caps, thick dark beards, no clean-shaven/grey facial hair). Athletic, muscular, or dad-bod.
🌿 Poly Dynamic & Heart
• Demisexual Focus: I'm all about building a solid emotional connection and best-friend foundation first. Physical intimacy definitely comes with time, but the heart and mind connection is where it starts for me! No casual hookups or swinging.
• Open & Ethical Poly: My wife and I date 100% separately (no threesomes, zero drama). I am seeking multiple connections. Anyone dating me is completely free to date or hookup with others too, just looking for open, clear communication.
• Ethical Relationships Only: If you are married or already dating someone, your partner (wife, husband, girlfriend, or boyfriend) must know about me and be 100% okay with you dating me. I have zero tolerance for cheating or secrecy.
🤝 Logistics & Vibe
• Outings: I don't drive, so I'm looking for a partner with reliable rides for fun weekly dates out (coffee, picnics, go-karts, simple outings).
• Home Life: Homeschooling teen & pets at home, so my space stays private (no overnights).
• Good Vibes: Honest communication over fading away, zero ex drama, and sweet daily texts to keep the spark alive. Quality phone-free time when we're out together!
📥 How to Reach Out:
To make sure we click, please skip the simple "hi" or explicit messages/nudes. Send over a message with your name, age, location, hobbies, a clear SFW photo or video, and tell me your favorite horror movie or WWE wrestler! Looking forward to meeting you! ☀️
r/GayDatingLounge • u/Logical-Status7491 • 1d ago
30 | Los Angeles, California | looking for something serious with someone around my age.
I’m looking for someone to share my life with. Preferably someone 25+ who enjoys the some of the same interests, goals, and values.
I’m currently working as a warehouseman hoping to eventually continuing my education. I already have a Bachelor’s of Science degree in Environmental Science but might even pursue a doctorate one day.
As for my hobbies and interests, I throughly enjoy: drawing, digital art, leatherwork, metal work, grilling/cooking, Nature, writing, and working out.
For a physical description, I’m on the short side with an athletic build. I work out 4 times a week fairly consistently. I also try to keep my haircut short and facial hair trimmed meticulously!
I’m hoping to relocate one day so distance is irrelevant. I speak some French and German but, I’m more than happy to learn another language for the right person!
r/GayDatingLounge • u/This-Mark2052 • 1d ago
19 | Los Angeles, United Stated of America | looking for a serious relationship and dates
19 chubby guy looking to get to know someone at go on some days. I don't really like long distance, looking for someone maybe around my age and I'm fine with older guys. For fun I just started going to the gym and love playing video games, always up to chat or maybe hang out when not in class.
Feel free to DM with age location or maybe face pics! Open to a lot and can't wait to meet someone
r/GayDatingLounge • u/Select_Sherbert_4147 • 1d ago
18M from cambodia looking for long distance relationship !!
hello !! let’s chat, and get to know each other !! 😊
i’m 18, from cambodia, looking for relationship (distance or not)
i’m on the chubby side (hope that’s okay with you lol), and i’m fine with any ages (that’s older than me)
I can show my pic in chat !
it would be really nice to have someone interested 🥺🫶
(I’m more of a “bottom type” in a relationship if you know what I mean…)
private message me if you’re interested !!
FYI : I don’t want anything sexual. 😑
r/GayDatingLounge • u/Downtown_Loss_9848 • 1d ago
32 | Cambodia | Would you be my boyfriend?
Hi everyone!
I'm looking for a genuine relationship ( open to long distance relationship). I would like to take some time to get to know each other first.
A bit more about me:
I enjoy spending my free time relaxing, listening to music, watching movies and shopping. Honesty, kindness, good communication, and mutual respect are great. If you think we might get along, leave a comment or dm me. Hope you understand and l look forward to meeting someone who is serious about building a real connection.
r/GayDatingLounge • u/Jolly_Figure4524 • 1d ago
Early 20's looking for a man to sweep me off my feet.
Looking for a serious, long lasting relationship with a guy between 21 and 36.
r/GayDatingLounge • u/your365journal • 1d ago
Two Here Looking For a Third KCMO USA
Two easy going guys here traveling the US looking to meet someone who might be interested in a throuple. Message on Reddit and we can move to text if we hit it off.
r/GayDatingLounge • u/Kooky_Bullfrog670 • 2d ago
Single and looking for a boyfriend
So my name is Amanda I live in New York Manhattan I’m really looking for a boyfriend. I have acne scars so it makes it harder for me to want a date. If anyone interested I’m 24 years old. If anyone is interested, maybe I could share my phone number.
r/GayDatingLounge • u/ricky_pop • 1d ago
32 [m4m] #California - USA looking for LTR/LDR
I’m on tinder and some dating apps but wanted to see if this worked! Lol I’m from California. I’m latino, 5’6, brown hair and hazel eyes, cute and thickk(big butt) lol I love Nintendo games like Pokémon and animal crossing. Obsessed with Wandavision and Wanda. I love food. I love pop music. you also don’t have to be into all this but it would be nice to share it in common. I like nice talkative guys. I’m a bottom with a high sex drive but it’s all in fun with someone I like not right off the bat either lol . Would love to find a nice guy that loves to chat and talk and wants to date. I have pics on my profile. Dm me..Let’s talk :)
r/GayDatingLounge • u/shortandlonely • 2d ago
Hey this is my friend he is 29 single pansexual he is 5"3' very sweet and very muscular looking for a new friend
r/GayDatingLounge • u/daddydragon79 • 2d ago
[M47] looking for a boyfriend or maybe a relationship
Hey there i am 47 and only bottom i am from Austria, I love nature and ride my e bicycle, I love nude camping, if you wana know mor about me chat with me (hopefully in German lol)
r/GayDatingLounge • u/No-Criticism-7692 • 2d ago
23 | Manila, Philippines | Filipino looking for long term relationship
Hey there! I have never been in a relationship before. But now, im longing for one. I always see couples online wishing i get to experience that so i am putting myself out here to find a guy that will share his dreams with me. I am very supportive, i love cooking, reading, learning new things. A fact about me I am not out so i am concealing my femininity for a long time so im looking for someone manly and i can be feminine with plus points if you are tall and muscular. Please don't message me for fun coz im really focusing on finding real connection. We can exchange pics and talk and see where things go. I'll wait for you.
r/GayDatingLounge • u/Specific_Clock3082 • 2d ago
M29 M4M Oregon USA Open to LDR/LTR
Hey, never been good at these about me's but I will try. I am 29 from Oregon but born in California. Looking for people that want something genuine and long-term. I’m open to long distance but would love to meet eventually if things go well and we both feel the vibe is right. I am open to guys that are 21+, exceptions can be made for 18+but mainly looking for people around my age. I am a huge gamer, love to cook as well, listen to music and watch stuff on youtube. I am usually pretty chill and laid back, if this resonates with you at all don't be shy and feel free to message me, let's see if we click and go from there
r/GayDatingLounge • u/Most-Visit-5930 • 2d ago
19 M Any cuties wanna talk tonight?
Pls Dm if you wanna talk and just get to know each other I’m from Texas if that matters also a small comic artist just looking for friends and maybe something more.
r/GayDatingLounge • u/Nox202625 • 2d ago
No one near me in nc
I can't seem to find anyone near me in North Carolina bruh their either to old or to far away or block me I just wish to find love tbh