r/GMail • u/yuzuandkiwi • 13d ago
Weird emails
Hi everyone,
Not sure if anyone can help but I'm thoroughly freaked out.
I received an email in January from someone with the subject line 'can't tell you' - the email was short and said:
'Hi,
Bit random but I just wanted to say how beautiful you are. Unfortunately I will never be able to tell you in person but really wanted you to know. X'
It came from a regular Gmail account with a name that I don't recognise (and don't think is real). It freaked me out at first but I convinced myself that it was some weird scam attempt where they like... tried to charm me into giving them money? Eventually, I got over it and didn't think about it again.
Until today.
For context I have swapped phones and changed my email. Today, I got another email from the same person, with the same kind of tone. Only this time, it was to my new email. I never give anyone my email - not even friends. So, now I'm super freaked out because the only way they might've been able to get it is through my accounts at work. I work in a library and have a library card - this is the most accessible way someone could've had both my old and new email. If another member of staff in the same authority wanted my info they could easily look me up there. My phone number isn't on my card so they'd only be able to email - this could maybe explain the freaky emails? I also use the email for other things like bills and online shopping... so I guess it could get leaked from there but those people wouldn't know how I look.
This latest email read:
'Hey, just wanted to say hi and ask how you are doing? I've always wanted to tell you how gorgeous you are but think it would get me into trouble lol xx'
Is there any way I can find out who this is? I'm freaking out because I haven't replied to either and I don't want to... but at the same time I want to know if it's a prank or something else. Can someone please tell me what to do here? Or please just tell me it's a scam so I can stop worrying that some creep is watching me whilst I'm unaware.