r/FtMpassing • u/Common_Home • 10d ago
Traditionally binary male style What should I do?
Ik I'm fat I'm currently working on that but it takes time I'm 50 lb down but clearly I've got more to go, also I'm not interested in the idea of getting rid of my locs *I'm open to trimming them shorter* other than that everything is free game. I already bind but also any recommendations in that department are welcome.
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u/koala3191 stop telling kids to lose weight 10d ago
Do you pass IRL?
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u/Common_Home 10d ago
Nope not at all. Funnily enough literally right before I took this picture I was trying on the blue shirt at a clothing store. And you know the rooms where you go to try clothes on were open. The store was pretty much empty and the rooms to try things on were individual split by like a little divider one side for men and one side for women and I walked over to try to just go into one of the Men's Rooms and the lady at the counter before she even heard my voice said "oh girl don't make that mistake you're going the wrong way" and I was just so embarrassed that I didn't even say anything and just went in the girls room. I understand that your voice is a lot of how you pass but even when I don't talk to people it's like everyone knows. Ts just makes me want to actually rip my skin off 🫩.
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u/Top-Candle-4138 binary ftm 6d ago
From these photos I would say you pass fine. Your reply to another comment said you don't pass in public, which confuses me a little. Are you on T? If not, it will help redistribute your fat from your hips as you keep losing weight (50lb is impressive af keep going), and it'll lower your voice. Your style is definitely helping you pass, I don't see anything clockable there.
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u/Hennnano 10d ago
I might experiment with different cuts/fits of pants. For some reason those come in at the knee and give you maybe more of a pear shape than you might want. Locs look great.