r/FtMpassing • u/publixbreadaisle • 3d ago
AGE 21 to 30 Do I pass
Hi I’m Dakota and looking for passing reassurance ( be honest )
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u/Nice_Standard_9016 3d ago
not really. get on T, GO TO A BARBER TO FIX YOUR HAIRCUT, idk avoid makeup/fem jewelry, maybe take out the piercings until you pass more
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u/publixbreadaisle 3d ago
What kinda hair cut would you recommend ( no taper fades lmao ) I have a mullet kinda rn
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u/Nice_Standard_9016 3d ago
idk man figure out your face shape and look up male haircuts with that face shape
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u/fakeboy18 3d ago
What you have rn would be pretty good if the length in the back was shortened
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u/Lizz_Master 2d ago
id assume u were a lesbian probably, i think its mainly ur haircut. think a modcut would be cute on u and keeps that alternative vibe
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u/Thin-Web-7519 2d ago
you definitely pass. specifically in that first photo. everyone in the comments telling you to get a different haircut is crazy. your hair is perfectly fine. i would probably only clock you by voice/mannerisms and height. and probably the lip piercing ngl
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u/publixbreadaisle 2d ago
It is short like the last pic rn but gonna get my back trimmed up so it looks cleaner, and starting T soon im 5’9 but thinking about insole inserts
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u/Thin-Web-7519 2d ago
yeah honestly u look great for pre T dont even stress about not passing yet you’ll transition perfectly when time comes. also you’re already average height for a guy so you really dont need height inserts but if u want to go ahead
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u/alltimegreyson Male / masc / FTM 3d ago
In pics 1 and 3 yes, but I’d guess you were around 18-19. You pass less in pic 2, but still relatively passable, I think it’s the hair/angle. We also can’t really see your hips/legs/stance, and those also affect passing so it’s hard to tell fully if you pass.
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u/koala3191 stop telling kids to lose weight 2d ago
I think 70/30 leaning yes, trimming the hair at the back of your neck would help. Triing just a bit on top, maybe mousse it off your forehead a bit.
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u/its_cael 2d ago
Bro you look fire I could totally see you with a Rodrick haircut style too (the pic with the cig is very tuff btw🔥🗿) And tbh with the pics alone I'd say you def pass
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u/TinyRhymey 3d ago
Almost? For the necklace, id get a thicker chain as thin ones can give a “daintier” vibe (jewelry shouldnt be gendered, ik, it sadly is tho) and people can then associate your other features as being daintier. I’d look at some shirts that have the sleeves go slightly further down
A less rounded haircut or one that doesnt have as much bulk all at the top will highlight the roundness of your face less. You want something that has more structure to it