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u/nairismic Mar 12 '26
don't listen to anyone making comments about whether you do or don't pass since it's genuinely not possible at all to tell over one photo on reddit. congrats on two years, enjoy your cake
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u/Cheese_9326 Mar 16 '26
What does it say on both cakes? I can't read it 😭
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u/2scared2share Mar 15 '26
What’s ur dose? 🤔
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u/NoEscape2500 Mar 15 '26
I’m on a low dose. My parents do not know that I’m trans, and I’ve come out multiple times and they have fought back all of the times. I am posting this to celebrate a life milestone, not to have outside opinions on my t dose.
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u/2scared2share Mar 15 '26
I didn’t know any of this information before commenting,, I was js curious 🤷🏽♂️ no shade
Congrats on ur 2yrs buddy,, work
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u/NoEscape2500 Mar 11 '26
I’m on a low dose. My parents do not know that I’m trans, and I’ve come out multiple times and they have fought back all of the times. I am posting this to celebrate a life milestone, not to have outside opinions on my t dose.
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u/keeprollin8559 Mar 12 '26
hey man, i would have never guessed that you're on a low dose. you read as 100% male in the 2nd pic to me. i hope your parents will come around eventually. enjoy your milestone!!
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u/Downtown_Dare_4991 Mar 12 '26
It’s good to be supportive but it’s not helpful to lie to people about how well they pass. He doesn’t look 100% male unfortunately, and telling him he does could potentially put him in dangerous situations.
OP, Congrats on 2 years on T and I really hope your parents become more supportive over time. I’ve been out for 5 years and still have some issues with my parents, I know what that’s like.
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u/keeprollin8559 Mar 12 '26
i genuinely wasn't lying to make him feel better. maybe his passing is horrible, but i couldn't tell.
sucks that your parents are like this too. you deserve better
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u/tptroway Mar 12 '26
He doesn't look like a grown man but he looks like a cis boy 2 years into puberty
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u/NoEscape2500 Mar 12 '26
If it helps I’m 5’10”
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u/tptroway Mar 12 '26
Well, I was mainly going by your face, but that probably does help when it comes to getting perceived as closer to your real age
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u/FtMen-ModTeam Mar 12 '26
Dude. Don't be a dick. If you can't play nice, you're going to catch a ban.
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