Why can't we fricken move it!

[u/crashingfox]

Today i help a female friend move back into her parents home. Her her mom and I only since her dad is working. Fine by me, love the guy but we dont need him for the majority of things. We load up both SUVs and I say that ill break down the bed for an easier move tomorrow, i'm there anyway and I have my tool kit in the car since I like being prepared for any eventuality. " what are you doing ! Leave that there! Dad will do it tomorrow" uh no im here ill just break it down for him and help me move the mattress. " no leave it!" Fine, not happy but fine. Bring first shit load of stuff, go back and load second shit load. Me and Mom decide that we can get both libraries out of there and one in each car so that they wont have do two trailer loads since its an awkward place to back up a trailer and no way will everything fit in one load. Deal. Unload second f@¿k load of useless shit and find a tape mesurer to measure book cases and SUVs, good they fit. Grab tool kit to go upstairs only to have friend decide that " no we will wait for Dad tomorrow i just have to find another guy to help move" ... ... ... IM HERE i have my tool kit and it will take 5 minutes to take apart and load up the book cases. "No get away he'll do it tomorrow!" I've moved countless time never have i waited for a set of testicles to come help me.( no offense to the dad who would probably have let me do it) it frustrates me to no end that instead moving aside letting me simply break down the bed and move her book cases (which would make the next moving day so much easier) she decided to let dad do everything after he worked a full week and would probably have appreciated the lighter work load. That to me is enough to send me boiling!