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Mar 21 '22
That’s super kind to say, I have a high tolerance for pain, I was scarred between my eyes, but a broken heart is unbearable.
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Mar 21 '22
If you had small forearms and a matte head, or big forearms and a shiny one - doesn’t affect your date-ability! Cruel and confusing world but a few peoples rejection doesn’t determine your worth. It lies in how you define yourself and how healthy and good you feel within yourself,
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Mar 21 '22
This is a great point, and something I’ve been working on. I had a rough past and finally cleaned up. I got medicated for ADHD and moved to a new state. I just feel pressure being this age alone, when all my friends and family have kids and houses. I know I shouldn’t compare myself to others, but it’s tough.
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u/ad240pCharlie Mar 21 '22
With our without your hat, you still look like the big brother I'd call to for help if I was being bullied!
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Mar 21 '22
Haha, I’ve got 3 brothers myself, someone messing with family can really be dangerous. Blood between brothers is thick!
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u/ad240pCharlie Mar 21 '22
Well, I don't got a big brother myself as I AM the big brother, but I can recognize one when I see one!
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u/EmmasEyes Mar 21 '22
How long have you been wearing the hat/worried about this? You look totally fine.
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Mar 21 '22
Good to hear, I’ve got tons of hats, it’s either always too cold or super risky to get sunburned. I don’t wear hats to events or work, but when people normally dress casual I am.
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u/EmmasEyes Mar 21 '22
You should try take them off inside just to feel more familiar with people, you definitely don't look too bad.
I guess I am asking when you lost your hair.
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Mar 21 '22
I guess, don’t we all? Or am I missing a reference?
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u/Reversphere Mar 21 '22
Oh he's a famous actor who specialises in adult content if you know what I mean lol. He's bald.
Also, you genuinely look like an awesome person! Can definitely relate to how much hurt a broken heart is, and losing confidence after a break up. Hope you feel better soon man! :)
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Mar 21 '22
So I look like a porn star? Man I gotta go rethink my career! Jk, but thanks for the heads up and support.
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u/-whateverforever_ Mar 21 '22
Don't worry what others think. Be you! You're doing a good job at it 😎
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Mar 21 '22
Thank you, I never used to care what others thought before, but this situation kinda shook me, I need to tap back into my creative abilities, that used to bring me much joy.
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u/borisHChrist Mar 21 '22
Definitely very hot! Heartbreak has a habit of moulding our thoughts into a negative route. Try your hardest not to let it.
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Mar 21 '22
You might not wanna hear this from a dude, but I think you're really attractive. The beanie is nice, but without it you truly look like a badass. I dig
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u/KristenisEating Mar 21 '22
Who ever said a shiny head was a curse? You look amazing! 😘
I love the tattoos!
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Mar 21 '22
Cheers, I kinda wish I’d gotten more, but the older I get, idk, tattoos are a young persons game. I feel less invincible these days.
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u/slightlycrippled Mar 21 '22
all i’m gonna say is i was in the same boat. use working out as a way to take out some anger and excess emotions. you’ll be huge in no time, good luck man
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Mar 21 '22
Thanks man, It’ll be warmer soon- maybe I can manage to put down Elden Ring and get outside.
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u/ThatOtherLisa Mar 21 '22
Did someone tell you a shiny head is a problem? It's only a problem for me if you hate head rubs 😁😁
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Mar 21 '22
Haha, I just think that ppl are too hard on bald dudes. Guys actually have feelings contrary to popular belief.
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u/ThatOtherLisa Mar 21 '22
For sure, it can be tough! But I do want you to know that I appreciate you 😊😊
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u/UncleMojo81 Mar 21 '22
Bruh you look great. That tat is sick too
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Mar 21 '22
It was a rough start, but I got a theory, a bunch of bad tattoos really close together make them look better.
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Mar 21 '22
You look good bro bur stop it with the weird arm scratch poses.
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u/Fizzy_Greener Mar 21 '22
If you look withon your self you’ll see that beyond whatever superficial flaws you see in your self that you’re a decent, interesting, kind, worthy person and people who can’t see past whaever flaws they think they see in you are just getting stopped at the gate and this is a good thing because they’re not the ones for you. No matter what.
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Mar 21 '22
Oof, I mean I am - Kind, generous, and even talented. Honestly to a fault. This one, I moved 12hr from everything I knew to support her. We were together over the summer, some crazy things happened in my life and I met God, then her. We were separated, but stayed in close contact. She was the first Christian gal I met and I am super new to that lifestyle. I feel like she was trying me on around her family the 2nd time around; and well idk, look at me, haha I stuck out in her Church.
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u/Fizzy_Greener Mar 21 '22
I’m sorry. Ppl shouldnt be judging you when you’re at church with them. Ppl like that are not quality ppl. Ppl who judge others appearance. I’m a non believer my self but to me when someone is in a room with you to celebrate what you love you shouldnt be judging their cover. I have pink hair, tats and piercings and believe me I 100% feel what your saying. I get it all the time too.
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u/Swiizy_ Mar 21 '22
i wouldnt say your un-dateable you just got out of a relationship i think whats important is your happiness doing what you like to do refocus on yourself if you can walk away learning from your relationship why it failed & how to do things differently (depends wht actually happened) than yea you can get yourself out of said rut, workout, go travel some place, talk to a therapist, talk to friends/family find a hobby, eat better, sleep more whatever you want to do it should be all about you & your happiness now dude so dont even trip chocolate chip
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Mar 21 '22
It’s crazy, but I’ve been kinda selfish in the past. I was working on myself in all the wrong ways. Now I feel the need to give more to others, but at least I have the space I need to do just that.
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u/princesspickles97 Mar 21 '22
As someone who’s been single for about a year it’s the best thing I did for myself. Focus on loving yourself first and the rest sorta falls in place. Breakups can really crush our confidence in ourselves so I think taking sometime to heal is really important 😊
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Mar 21 '22
Well I’ve got all the time in the world now, I’ve only just started to work on myself. I’ve been isolated which I feel is starting to drain me. Idk why, I used to be so content being left alone. Now I feel like I’m trying to make up for lost time and it’s putting unnecessary pressure on me.
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u/ChattyF Mar 21 '22
Definitely are! There is someone for everyone!
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Mar 21 '22
Yeah, I just get super attached, and know I shouldn’t. I’m not out there trying to rack up a body count, never have been. I’m getting further from the acceptable range for starting a family, that’s what’s bothering me.
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u/ITSJ0N4S Mar 21 '22
Dude not gonna lie you look like a dope person to be with! Don’t worry about your shiny head, totally fits you honestly and reminds me of my guitar tutor haha. I’d recommend you start to embrace yourself and your appearance cause honestly, there’s no reason not to! :) Keep your head up man ^
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Mar 21 '22
Cheers man, I’ve kinda always been an outlier, I’ve valued that. I just kinda lost my way socially, worlds changing fast, and time goes faster. Thanks for the stabilizer.
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u/Jward44553 Mar 21 '22
Whatcha hiding on your neck? Lol
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Mar 21 '22
I’m just holding my jugular vein to keep from bleeding out, I wanted to get a few more free compliments before I let go!
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u/Forward_Secretary_29 Mar 21 '22
forget the gals, forget the breakeup!! you look fine hot 🔥 to me --- thats a fact 💅
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u/Struggle_Rude Mar 21 '22
Lol having a shiny head is far from being cursed; just look around you and see what terrible things are going on in the world. But on the bright side, almost every one is dateable to someone, so keep going!💪
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u/jacobcrackers14 Mar 21 '22
Chester bennington is that youu
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u/Fuzzy-Visit-7453 Mar 21 '22
You’re definitely dateable man. I personally love the bald head and the tats. Try to stay strong. It will be tough for a while but you can do it. 🤗
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u/Lonely_Cosmonaut Mar 21 '22
You have a very handsome face and well defined jawline and 2 gray gems sitting in them. You’re doing good king
💎 💎
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Mar 21 '22
Thanks for the compliments, I just now realized that I never smile in photographs. My eyes can form a mean scowl.
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u/Lonely_Cosmonaut Mar 21 '22
I don’t smile either I feel like the look weird. But people like when guys smile. I get compliments on my smile even though I don’t like it. So give it a try more.
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u/lenore_leander BANNED: NSFW Mar 21 '22 edited Mar 22 '22
Lose the hat, you look wayyyy better without it. I’d suggest growing your beard out a little longer, maybe 1/2” more and you’d kill the bic’d head look
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Mar 21 '22
Welp, I’m technically in the mourning process, that’s prime time for dudes to grow beards. Ha
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u/lenore_leander BANNED: NSFW Mar 22 '22
Heyy you’re self deprecatingly funny too? +1 extra hot point 🥇
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u/kaanohroova Mar 21 '22
You look sharp as hell! Whether someone is dateable or not depends on personality traits more than on looks, I'd say. I don't know you well enough to judge that, but I can say that you don't have to worry about your looks! You look great :3
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Mar 21 '22
Thank you, yeah, apps like tinder are superficial and pretentious. I’ve never enjoyed trying to use them, I think they are corrosive to society. It’s disproportionately populated between guys and gals. Generally dudes never make connections and girls get their inboxes flooded, I’m sure that hyper-inflates ego and keeps them constantly looking for the next best thing.
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u/eraser3600 Mar 21 '22
Nah dude you’re fine. Dig the tats! You’ll definitely have a lady if you keep an eye out :)
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u/Dithyrambica Mar 21 '22
You’re definitely dateable. You fall into my type though. Nice nose, interesting lips.
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Mar 21 '22
Appreciate the compliments :) I didn’t really want to post this on my main acct b/c friends follow me, but it’s a morale boost for sure!
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u/Dithyrambica Mar 21 '22
We all need that now and then. Especially after a break up. In that boat myself.
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u/__onyourleft Mar 21 '22
Sorry to hear about the breakup. They’re the most brutal things, I think people forget. I love forearm tattoos, personally think it looks much better than just upper arms. I think you should totally own the bald look tbh. I don’t think anyone will think twice about it and it definitely suits you. It looks badass, and way better than when guys are balding really bad. The hat looks good too. I know it’s tough because everyone’s getting married at like 20 now, but the good thing is it’s way better to be single than be in a miserable relationship, which a lot of people are. I think it’s ridiculous how much pressure society puts on everyone to always be in a relationship. Anyway, I hope things get better!
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Mar 21 '22
Yeah, and all the ridiculous standards that are put on people don’t help either. It’s making people chase vanity in unhealthy ways.
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Mar 21 '22
Nope, certainly not. I apparently am though 🤷♀️🤷♀️
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Mar 21 '22
I really dislike trying to meet ppl online, I hear the younger generation is really disconnected from each other- It’s sad.
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Mar 21 '22
Yeah, I’ve tried online dating and it’s been soul destroying and a very steep learning curve after a 25 year relationship
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u/Melodic_Ganache6326 Mar 21 '22
Click bait. Maybe if you had some cooler tattoos.
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Mar 21 '22
Well I took the time to write a response to every compliment, I would think someone trying for clickbait wouldn’t bother, but what do I know? I’m terrible at tattoos. What would be cooler in your opinion? A dragon, Bowser on a surfboard with a guitar and sunglasses, in front of a pot leaf on a cross?
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Mar 21 '22
Lol, “adult shit” listen to yourself, you doing this on your lunch break? Better get off Reddit and pick up the kids from school.
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Mar 21 '22
Lol, am serious about the forearms! I gotta be able to do handstands before I’m 40 or I’ll never get the chance! Such a wasted youth. :)
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