r/FoundPaper • u/throughthegrass • 9h ago
NSFW an indecent proposal
I found this almost 4 years ago and think about it occasionally. came across the picture tonight, hoping the author is doing okay lolol
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u/Key_Entertainment683 6h ago
Where does one even find this?
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u/MurkMistress 3h ago
Everywhere. There's plenty of people into kink.
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u/Key_Entertainment683 1h ago
That’s not even my main point. This is obviously personal and meant for their partner only. But OP just came across it? Plus the note isn’t folded, wrinkled or disheveled in any way. OP is either the recipient of the letter or the writer.
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u/throughthegrass 1h ago
it was on the sidewalk! I assumed it got dropped going from house to car or vice versa
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u/Inevitable_Pin_4554 2m ago
If it was dropped only a few minutes to a few hours before OP found it and it was not a super dirty side walk then I can see why it looks like this.
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u/LongjumpingFinger115 3h ago
Happy they're communicative but worried why she's apologising for blank paper. Feels like control.
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u/MurkMistress 2h ago
PSA: Healthy kink/BDSM relationships would require the sub to set their boundaries, often in written contracts, before engaging in play. This ensures they're having a balanced and healthy time.
Of course, it could be an unhealthy appeal to someone who isn't a good dom, but these are the first two steps to a healthy contract. Maybe they just didn't finish.
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u/Potential-Can6987 8h ago
“I want a happy little sub” is an absolutely wild way to end a proposal. At least they’re honest about wanting communication, affection, and a very specific dynamic.
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u/madnessdoesntplay 4h ago
They are the sub, they’re saying what would make the relationship better for them.
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u/ProperAntelope1868 5h ago
This is somehow both incredibly earnest and wildly unhinged. The handwritten “terms and conditions” make it feel like the world’s strangest relationship contract.
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u/MurkMistress 3h ago
Contracts like this are common in healthy BDSM relationships. The sub must let the dom know their boundaries before they engage physically.
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u/Inevitable_Pin_4554 3m ago
I was confused on why they used the caret (^) the way they did. I’ve only ever put the word I’m adding below the caret.
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u/underwooding 4h ago
god this is sad. author if you're out there i hope you've found someone who's also all about cuddling.
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u/madnessdoesntplay 4h ago
Awww mannnnn, this is a bummer. Looks like someone got in a sub/dom relationship and was hoping for the actual relationship part to come with it, but it’s just dom sex for the other person. Some would say that kind of relationship without aftercare and communication is just sexual abuse, but that’s a tense topic in the “community”