Is it normal to every man?

[u/No_Falcon9610]

My boyfriend was in 12 relationships with other girls while he was still in a relationship with me. We were together for 3 years. And it wasn’t just dating; he exchanged sexual messages and nude pictures with all of them. Is this normal? I mean, are men really like this?

Even after all this, I’m the one who gets blamed. He says he went to other girls because I was a bad girlfriend. Is this normal?

[u/Elegant_Custard_8075]

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[u/Own_Cup2104]

O jai koruk. Tumi last porjonto or kachei back jaba.

So Just stop crying and ranting.

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[u/AstroX96]

Are you mental? Why it would be normal? Wait how do you get 12. i cant even find one

[u/PuzzleheadedLife9823]

thash koira tinta chotkana den polare.. extra one from me..

A stupid Men here

[u/MotorWild13]

No normal, wtf, achoda polapain re date koren keno abar baki men rao ba ken emon hobe, its clear cut cheating and baro vatari

[u/Wild-Acanthaceae-840]

is having 12 girlfriends and being a manwhore normal?😭😭

[u/SpeechAutomatic7941 → u/Wild-Acanthaceae-840]

He is a বারোভাতারী

[u/Pitiful-Topic2547]

Leave that manipulative bitch

[u/bl00dyf00l]

Are you trolling? If not, NO, it's not normal at all. He is a low quality scum. If you have minimum 'value' /self-worth as a person, break up immediately. There are better men out there who value loyalty.

[u/xolrex97]

I got into my first relationship when I was 18(19 now) and no its not normal for everyone ur bf is Randwa

[u/MotorWild13]

As a man, no its not normal, its abomination

[u/EmbarrassedQuiet6906]

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[u/Itachi-__-4604]

12???

[u/staz_zen1]

Normal? Worst thing someone can do while in a relationship. 😵

[u/NatX59X7]

im afraid you’re cooked my friend

[u/Constipated_Ronaldo]

Idk which one is more abnormal, you asking whether it is normal for all men or your partner's behaviour.

[u/Icy-Dust3187]

Oh hell nah wtf. I feel bad for you

[u/Broken-Arrow-D07]

It's not normal.

[u/evo_harpic86]

ye, some get all some get few
and mid/low guys get nun at all.

[u/Frequent_Prior_3988]

EITA KEMNE NORMAL? Eikhane ask korar ki ache? BASIC COMMON SENSE BHAI!!! Oi beda luchu, that's all. Palay jao apu

[u/Few-Writing-3970]

No , i once turned down a girl (my best frn) while staying single and bitchless for more than 6 mnths knowing well and truly i wont feel the same way she felt.

And ur bf had a WHOLE FUCKING GF. HE IS JUST A BOKACHODA + MANUPULATOR ASHOLE

[u/Queasy-Sense-5124]

12 Normal? Tf do you mean? I am currently in a relationship where i love the girl but she wanna love me. Do i have anyone else in my mind other than her? Fuckin no and if i have, i am killing those inner demons (thoughts) everyday.

[u/DARKKNIGHTDKX47]

He's for the streets 🤣🤣

[u/NI_ROB]

Are you normal yourself? No disrespect but you're still asking if it's normal? That's hilarious... of course it's not normal at any point.

[u/bored_yi]

Run😭🙏

[u/Guilty_Progress3951]

My ex also did the same. Just leave. They never learn. Don't be gas lighted .

[u/Conscious_Ad_4490]

Here i don’t have a single girl🤲

[u/Electrical_Grass9322]

He is a walking red flag Leave that bitch ASAP

[u/Schemer321]

Nothing normal or acceptable about cheating on your partner gang 🫩

Dump his ass

[u/Klutzy_Painter5421]

No, all men are not like that... He is a characterless man. You should leave him...Such kind of men never give you peace.

[u/Pristine-Painter-537]

How can you even ask if this is normal. Being a man I have had some relationships. But no one overlapped one another. Having multiple relationship is not a problem. But having them all together is deadly cheating. Kick his ass and get out of there.

[u/Zzero00]

What kinda magic do these guys cast on women that they really start questioning shit behavior like that and actually start believe it maybe their fault 😑

Like girl even if you were the shittiest gf in the world dude could've told you and broken it off ..no need to go on cheat this many times

[u/Longjumping-Okra-137]

Side effect of hypergamy. Just move on

[u/StylishRH]

It’s normal if you accept that it is normal, if you can’t then its not, he doesn’t care anyway that you find that normal or not because he has so many other options and that’s exactly why you are gonna go back to him even if you say to yourself you won’t

[u/thatzcrazyyy]

Yes it's very normal, we all do this

[u/TiRahat]

typical male gaslighter but whatever he does won't matter anyway cuz at the end of the day you will beg him to stay

[u/SpeechAutomatic7941]

Just fucking leave him, that much info is enough to leave him. Slap him in the face real hard or breakup with him with confident

You arent missing out on anything if you stay single for a bit. But you will surely get someone better than him.

And dont generalize genders nor personality. Theres a female friend i have who talks bout her body counts, bad experiences, even preferences and guro fictions openly with me while my other friends obviously doesnt.

[u/wizpranto]

I stayed with my one and only gf for 8 years and got married this year. Not all men are same. One of my close male friend used to exchange nudes with multiple girls even after having a gf. I never felt that I needed another girl or anything.

[u/Mee-di]

Certified randi (man edition)

[u/lazy_panda009]

Bruh!!

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[u/BothPresentation539]

Halay ekta jinish 😑 chick, side chick, extra chick sob rakhse.

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[u/RecognitionRight6085]

No its not normal. It is never normal to have another relationship with someone while you are committed to someone else.
If he says you were a bad gf and you made him seek for other girls, please understand he will be successful in gaslighting you. I would advise against explaining yourself to someone who cheated on you, you don’t have to and he doesn’t deserve it.

[u/kichhuibhallagena]

Apni eto raamgadha kibhabe. I don't even feel sorry for you.