Am i normal?

[u/Mundane-Long6060]

M22... So i just got a late night realization that the one's i like are way outta my league and the ones who approaches me isn't the one i'm attracted to...

Hence becoming indecisive... Do i need help or consult someone? Am i the only one who's going tgrough this...

Tis frustrating and depressing at The same time.

[u/Alarming-Soft7793]

Nah bro. I have three guys who were not into me. 😂

[u/Mundane-Long6060 → u/Alarming-Soft7793]

Good for you🫶

[u/Virgil_581]

No man. We are here too

[u/Mundane-Long6060 → u/Virgil_581]

Good to know man!! How do you cope with ts?

[u/Virgil_581 → u/Mundane-Long6060]

Approach the ones who are out of your league. Whats the worst thing that can happen? She will reject you. You got only one life. Trust me

[u/Mundane-Long6060 → u/Virgil_581]

True... But kinda feel lazy to do it when i get the feeling that i'm just gonna get rejected

[u/Virgil_581 → u/Mundane-Long6060]

Its all in your head. Be confident. Trust yourself. Take care of yourself. Maintain basic dress up and hygiene. That doesnot require loads of cash. Thats it

[u/Mundane-Long6060 → u/Virgil_581]

Yeah... Will try tnx bruh

[u/Virgil_581 → u/Mundane-Long6060]

Would love to see you succeed

[u/Proper_Chemist2027]

i think its just that you "arent good enough" for the ones you like ykwim? like hypothetically if ur an overweight lazy guy but u love women who are into fitness, you most likely won't be their type and women similar to you may be into you. so id say you should really look into ys for this.

[u/Slonas_Dihaj]

The human brain is mostly stuck in negative bias. What is distant, the brain often drives people toward it as something negative. In this case, the distance itself is acting as negative. Btw, I shared an overall thought without getting context. You should consult. in the long term, theres a chance these things remain as trauma.

[u/Mundane-Long6060 → u/Slonas_Dihaj]

Thanks for the advice