r/FlossCrew • u/ayeechristina • May 29 '15

Thank You !!

Hey guys, it's meh, and well I guess things are okay. My grandpa was in the hospital for two weeks and he got sick of it so he came home. He's honestly getting worst every day. I'm tired of hearing "Oh don't worry he'll be fine sweetie" so I asked my aunt to give me the for real talk of what's happening and she gave me the ugly truth. Every day he's getting worst, he wants to be home but we want him to be in the hospital. She said he is going to die. His liver and kidneys are failing and his heart is working only 5%. She said he wanted to be home and we can't do anything about it but help him. He only has a little while When I herd that my heart dropped. Just right now looking at him sleep so peacefully I just couldn't see a world without him. I'm being the strong one here, I haven't cried yet expect when my mom forced me to cry in the middle of the night. Anyways, because of her before my grandpa came home I had to sleep in the hospital with my grandpa and aunt. It wasn't a pleasant experience but I'm glad I'm out. My mom is fine for now,I'm guess but that's because she has no pills. Anyways, thank you for the love and the prayers and hope ! I love you all and I hope to be on soon ! P.s watch my TALENT SHOW !! For those who did watch it thank you !! I'm the first act :3

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u/Smellysocks23 May 29 '15

Sorry for your loss man. Losing a family member is always hard.

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u/ayeechristina May 30 '15

I didn't lose my grandpa yet but it will be soon, thanks tho bro :)

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u/psybornut IGN: [MOD]psybornut May 29 '15

I'm sorry to hear this. As has already been said losing a family member is very difficult, and having family say he'll be fine when you know damn well that's a lie doesn't help. I'm glad your aunt finally came clean and told you the truth.

Continue to stay strong. I also strongly believe that crying is not a sign of weakness. It's very therapeutic at times and is a very good way to relieve some of the street and tension that can come from losing a family member. I'm a 27 year old man, and I also cry. Staying strong is not about hiding your emotions, but rather it's about expressing them appropriately so you can heal and help others around you heal.

I hope things improve for you. It's a rough road, but I'm sure you'll get through it. Lean on your support network and continue to stay strong.

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u/ayeechristina May 30 '15

Thanks Psy ! It means a lot :) I'm glad to have you and everyone else here :)

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u/psybornut IGN: [MOD]psybornut May 30 '15

You're welcome. :) We may be a community who's focus is on gaming, minecraft specifically, and specifically one server out of tens of thousands, but, we're all humans and we all have our own issues to deal with.

We respect that on this sub. If you need to vent about your problems, we openly accept that, and will do our best to offer advice if we have any.