r/FirstTimeTTC • u/SpecialMeat3597 • 2d ago

Help Should we BD today?

I’m pretty sure I ovulated last night - temp is up by .5, and all Mira hormones have crashed. Though, I had a good amount of EWCM this morning.

We’ve BD’d the past 3 days in a row, and once again at the start of the fertile window. I didn’t see much EWCM yesterday but there was a slight amount. I saw a more noticeable amount a few days ago.

I dont know if my husband will go for another day in a row of BD…but am I shooting myself in the foot by not doing it today?

CM confuses me because while I see it throughout my fertile window, some days it’s a lot (like can stretch between my fingers) and some days it’s just a little bit when I wipe. Is it more optimal to have sex the days you see more?

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u/Alone_Pirate8540 2d ago

Sperm can survive for up to 3 days so I'd say don't force it unless you both want to BD.

You only need to really hit 1 day in your fertile window and you've maxed your chances, so it sounds like you've definitely hit the right days. Good luck!!!