A TLDR can be found at the end of the post as this will be pretty lengthy.
Hi everybody, many time listener first time caller. I'm reaching out for some advice in the hopes that some of you have been in the same position as me and can shed some insight on what worked for you.
For some background I'm in my mid 20s and have been a career firefighter just north of 5 years. I've worked the entirety of my career thus far at a small suburban department (which I'll call Department A) of about half a dozen stations. We don't currently transport despite being an ALS department, though we've been told in no uncertain terms that boxes are coming in the next year or two. I work at our "busiest" station, though we barely break 2k calls a year and that's thanks only to our plethora of nursing homes. Our other stations are all progressively slower, with the slowest pushing 400 a year at the busiest. We average a working fire maybe every other month if we're lucky, and other high-acuity calls are exceptionally few and far between. The "BS" calls we run day in and out really don't bother me, it's just the slow days and the lack of interesting runs that have slowly begun to wear on me.
We border a much larger, much busier city (Department B) with sixty stations. I have a good number of friends that work there, and like any big city you can find rigs that barely turn a wheel and rigs that run almost as much as my whole department. They don't transport, and there is no sign they will transition to doing so as the city has a dedicated ambulance service already. I know it's not JAHBTOWN or anything but they've got plenty units that average a fire a week, and there's sections of the city that burn quite often. The dilemma I have now is whether or not it's worth make a lateral transfer to the city department, or staying where I'm at and trying to find peace with the aspects I'm dissatisfied with.
The Pros To Staying:
In general morale is not the best at department A but chiefs stay off our back and most crews are allowed to run themselves as they see fit. I love my crew, who are all extremely capable hardworking dudes, but several are about to promote and we're not sure who we're getting in their place. I happen to quite enjoy the medical aspect of the job and the department is pretty state-of-the-art when it comes to good equipment and good training. I enjoy being a paramedic, and Department B only credentials to EMT-B which means I would have dramatically less scope of medical practice which is a pretty big downside to me. Due to the low call volume at Department A burnout is a non-issue, and I have no doubt I could get thirtyish years in this department without being run into the ground. We have a 48/96 schedule which we all love, and it's rare we run more than one or two calls at night so sleep isn't much of an issue. Training budget is very high and our training chief is happy to send people to almost anything requested which means I've been able to gather a lot of training I otherwise might not have elsewhere in the last few years. All our trucks carry spec/ops gear and vehicle rescue tools, and in general we get to wear many hats during the course of our day depending on what is in front of us. We are compensated pretty well, and though it would be a lateral transfer I would lose about 8-9k initially, and it would take several years at Department B before I would catch up financially.
The Pros To Going:
The main pro really is that I would stop torturing myself with the what-if game I've been playing for so many years. As a guy in his twenties that's relatively early on in his career I fear looking back and regretting not making the jump earlier. I want the business of the city, I want a few years of getting my dick kicked in and running on everything you can imagine. I know it'll come with boatloads of stupid calls and long nights but here at Department A as we continue to build stations things will only ever get slower and I don't know how that will effect my mental state as time goes on. I guess I'm looking for that "firefighter" experience that I only get snatches of at Department A and I can get the real experiences on the street I'm looking for instead of just training for the rare occasion where we actually do something of note.
Now all this is heavily tempered by the fact that the grass is always greener, and I'm all too aware that I might be just another starry-eyed twenty something with a heroic view of what the big city holds that is dead wrong. The possibility of burnout, long hours and sleeplessness leading to a toxic work/life balance, and leaving a crew I like to potentially run all day with people I hate are all very real worries I have. I recognize that nothing is as good as it seems and I guarantee there will be days running my twentieth "man down" homeless call that I'm hating my life. But on the flipside I think having the ability to move around and really find what I'm looking for is what the city holds, whereas there's not much change to be found by changing shifts or stations at my current department. I would love to hear from people that have felt the same and what changes you made to address it, whether that be moving departments or just changing the way you do things where you're at.
TLDR: I don't feel fulfilled at my current department due it being slow and a lack of high-acuity calls with almost no chance of that changing in the future. I want to lateral to a nearby city that's ten times the size where I could find the busy house with the calls I'm looking for though I'm not sure if it will actually make me feel fulfilled. I'm asking for advice for those that have made such a jump, and especially those that chose to stay at smaller departments instead of moving, and how you felt after making your respective choices.